In Search of Happiness

Countdown 80 - In Search of Happiness

Quote of the day

‘Finding Happiness is not as important as understanding what Happiness is all about. Equally to escape the entrapment of sadness is not as important until you understand why you got there in the first place.’

Welcome to a wonderful Tuesday, a day where inspiration comes alive in a different way. It comes in the form of a subtle quest to search. It is all about the search for happiness of which I believe that we all seek but do we really understand its true meaning. I would define Happiness as a realm of limitless pleasure bonded by a feeling of intense exhilaration, total delight and complete joy. Many of us would openly say that we are happy. However, we need to openly ask ourselves is our happiness long-term or short-term. Limitless pleasure is the acknowledged practice of having a strong desire and passion in all that you do, think or say. Limitless pleasure can be likened to a flow of a river, each molecule of water coalescing to create life for all that depend on it. It is limitless because it flows continually. It is limitless because it is abundant. It is limitless because it is free. If you can understand the power to obtain happiness without any financial commitment than you are half way, there. When you know that you have access to a medium designed especially for you 25% of your rewards comes rushing in and that is called delight. An employer may promise you a job but can never guarantee permanency. A bank manager can grant you a mortgage but never guarantee you a fixed interest rate. Everyone makes promises but very few will keep them. GOD’s promise to you is always there strong like a ray of light. Such a ray is so enlightening, satisfying and full of hope. Where else in the living world can you reach out your hand and be comforted? Where can you find peace in a forest of chaos? Where can you locate righteousness in a world riddled with unrighteousness? Everything you need to live is free from the hand of GOD. Everything you need to live from the hand of man has a price tag attached to it. Listen to the word of man and you shall listen to the sound of pain, the feeling of being drained and the constant train of a migraine. Listen to the word of GOD and you shall feel no pain, be under no strain, without a migraine, the ability to attain happiness and the power to obtain. Dear Friends, you need to grasp the full meaning of Happiness before you can embark on getting it. Many will follow the leader of the pack even though it may not always be the right way. I say onto you and verily too, follow your very instincts and be driven by them. Seek first the true meaning of happiness because grasping onto it. When you know that you are happy hold onto to it forever and ever. People will cunningly take away your possessions, but don’t let them come any near to taking away your happiness.

The MIDS Effect.

The MIDS Effect.

Quote of the day

‘A Jetstream of constant agitations in all areas of your daily grind will never make you fully accomplished and fulfilled. The usual feelings of your day will be one of madness, idleness, drabness and sadness. This is a typical conclusion of the MIDS Effect.’

Welcome to the final day of your working week and the final working week of July 2016. It is great to have you on board. Are you looking forward to the month of August – the month of Hyperactivity. A daily grind of agitation is a definite no-no for any meritocratic goal setter. Time is always their most precious gift. All meritocratic goal setters acknowledge and understand this and therefore manage their time accordingly. They know well what a life of agitation is and the consequences of perusing it. Agitation is the foundation to the MIDS Effect, The MIDS Effect denotes a life of madness, idleness, drabness and sadness. Madness is insanity at work, at home or on the streets. It is a period of your time which is wasted resulting in exercises of foolishness and stupidity. Foolish behaviour denotes an action by an individual that is completely thoughtless. It shows streaks of carelessness, absentmindedness and unkindness to another individual generally has a result of hastiness. Idleness on the other hand is a period of sheer laziness by the individual where the value of time goes by unnoticed. A mad day and an idle day form the perfect dough to create drabness in your life. Do you feel cheerless and bored? If so, try to examine your temperament. It will usually show that you are mad about something or lacking liveliness. Finally swimming in a pool of madness, idleness and drabness will often make you very sad at the end of your day.  You will feel regretful and often ask but why did I do that. Dear Friends you need to switch from the MIDS Effect to the LIPS Effect to achieve a positive result. You need to start your day understanding your temperament and to understand what is bothering you. Join me tomorrow for the LIPS Effect. Have a great evening.

The Best Practice

Best Practice

Quote of the day

‘The best practice in life is to remove the madness, idleness, drabness, and sadness from your portfolio and change them to liveliness, illustriousness, peacefulness and selflessness. I called this the MIDS to LIPS Effect.’

Good evening to you from rather a mild Thursday evening here in good old London Town. Today I would like to talk about the best possible practice in life which I call the MIDS to LIPS Effect. Sticking to the MIDS effect will always leave you in the same jet stream of constant high velocity agitations at work, home or in the streets. The LIPS Effect does the converse. It gives you an airstream of dreams and common goals. Today I say onto you and verily too always follow the Best Practice and apply the LIPS Effect from the start of a new day. Tomorrow I shall talk about the MIDS Effect in more details and on Saturday I shall conclude this article and speak about the LIPS Effect.

   

                   

The Official Prescription to Happiness

The Official Prescription to Happiness

Quote of the day

‘Happiness Always Puts People In Natural Ecstasy Sundays to Sundays’

Bonus Quote

‘The Prescription to Happiness is to take one dose of Natural Ecstasy at the brink of your day and let it work through your day in a natural way.’

A very blessed Sunday to ALL my friends from around the world and thank you ever so much for finding the time to read and appreciate my inspirational words. Universally Friendly is indeed your one stop to a life of betterment, good temperament, constant achievement and to personal development.

Additional Bonus Quote

‘To take action you need positive attraction that brings total satisfaction for the rest of your life.’

One concept to positive attraction is a word used often in conversation but not entirely in implementation, and that word is Happiness. Happiness is a natural prescription to alleviate you from the adversities of life and to deviate you from the perversities of your daily encounters. Happiness is found at the source of life, it originates from above and falls below onto the face of the Earth as a water droplet. Happiness is life, without the water droplet life will cease to exist. Happiness is also found beneath the Sun's strong rays. Place your hand under the Sun and you shall see the glow of glory and the flow of jolly. Glory to the angels that protect us from danger and jolly to the 7 billion people that wake up each day to serve the world at large. Happiness is about collaboration amongst all, consideration for all, harmonisation in every heart and participation from every soul. Happiness is positive energy that makes you smile, makes you live in style, triggers you to laugh and always manifests as peace and unity. Happiness is to agree, sadness is to disagree. Happiness is an auditorium of peace, sadness is a crematorium of hate. Dear Friends, you need Happiness in your life from the brink of dawn until the link to dusk where nocturnal creatures go to work and when diurnal creatures take a rest. Take a dose of Happiness by clasping your palms to touch the early morning dew and let the sunshine flow like energy from a light bulb. Have a happy Sunday, have a happy Monday and have a lifetime of happiness.

Turning Negatives into Positives

Turning Negatives into Positives

Quote of the day

‘One of our weakest links in life is that we carry too much of negatives along our journey to success. We need to let go by switching our negatives into positives with immediate effect to change our outlook to life.’

Welcome to your weekend, the final one in January and to bring our wonderful opening month in the year to an end I want to talk about letting go. We need to start turning negatives into positives. Negatives is a firm rejection to what you can be or want to be. Positives on the other hand is a firm approval of what you can be or want to be. We are all fundamentally the same and therefore can achieve anything in life, we just need to let go of the negatives. This has been proven so there is no need to doubt it. It is a simple psychological switch in our mind that we need to activate. Any switch whether it is mechanical, electrical or psychological will switch the state of something from on to off or vice versa. We need to switch from old to young, from poor to rich, from bad habits to good habits, from poor health to good health and from sadness to happiness. Visualisation is the key ingredient to you overall success. If you are fat, you need to visualise yourself as a thin and slim person. You need to create a virtual wardrobe to accommodate the new you. Donate your old clothes and switch them to new ones that you can fit into. If you are poor, in debt and struggling immensely you need to visualise yourself as financially independent racing to get out of debt. You need to create a new wardrobe of independency by getting rid of all your debts in a proposed time period and bring in new credit to your life. Switching is easy if you are willing to let go. If you are still clinging onto addictions, then you will be faced with constant contradictions. I say onto you and verily too, face your addictions with additions and subtractions. Yes, add positives into your life and subtract negatives from it. Add life to your life. Enjoy every second of it. Add love to overcome hate. Subtract hate and let love reappear. Add money to your pocket by emptying your closet of all unwanted items. Let go. Throw away the negatives and grow the positives. Don’t smoke because you know that you will end up with a stroke. Don’t drink because you know you will stink and not be able to think. Don’t do drugs, don’t be a thug and reject those negative bugs. Switch to positives. Take stress and switch it to finesse. Take tactlessness and transform it into diplomacy. Create positives from negatives. Separate positives from negatives. Use the psychological switch. Have a wonderful weekend. Enjoy every moment of it and reflect on the last 30 days to establish your progress in 2016. With 335 days left there is a lot to do. Start by identifying your negatives and let’s work together in February and turn them into positives.

Happiness

Happiness

Quote of the day

Happiness Always Provides Pleasure In Nearly Every Sad Situation.

Bonus Quote

‘Happiness is the greatest pleasure that a human being strives for but what is Happiness all about? Happiness to me is the converse of sadness where melancholy feelings bring shudder to one’s life and progress. Happiness is a blissful feeling overcoming misery and heartache that we are sometimes exposed to. Happiness is delight when one accomplishes a series of tasks. Happiness is enjoyment when one sees merriment at home and joy in their children’s success. Happiness is harmony amongst the living world where smiles are exchanged for frowns and where help is given to overcome hindrance.’

A very hearty and happy welcome to Tuesday, the 8^th day of December 2015. It is wonderful to have you on board. As I write this article I feel a sense of happiness as my fingers hit the qwerty keyboard. I feel this level of happiness because I was once given happiness when I sat in a pool of sadness. Sadness takes a firm grip of your life making you feel gloomy, miserable, despondent and sorrowful. I know it well because I experienced it. I experienced tears of sadness rolling down my cheeks where the feeling of hope seems to have been lost and the conduit to survival has been cut off. Sadness makes you weak, vulnerable and exposed. Sadness is the converse of happiness. Many people live with the feelings of sadness daily. They don’t know where their next meal will come from or when freshwater will flow like the tears in their eyes again. Today I wanted to talk about the realm of happiness because it is Christmas. At Christmas we remember to love, to give and to share. Christmas brings joy and happiness to all ages, from the youngest to the oldest. Without happiness there is sadness. At this precise moment Sadness is dripping upon the shoulders of someone like pelting rain carrying with it the crying sound of pain and despair. At this precise moment sadness means the end of the road for young children and women too who remain as refugees. Dear Friends, sadness does exist and because it does we need to exchange it with happiness. Happiness is something that we need to give liberally to others. This is a blessing. Never live to be stubborn. If you need to receive happiness let the world know about it. As you receive you must be prepared to give the same or more. Happiness is a unique blessing. Happiness is clean, happiness is pure, happiness is free and happiness is always from the heart. Happiness dwells in the hills, the mountains, the valleys, the dunes, the seas, the oceans, the clouds and in you. You just need to switch it on like a light switch and watch how it radiates across everything you see, touch or feel. You cannot live a life without happiness but you can certainly live a life without sadness. Make Christmas special not just for you or for them but try to reach out to those that are drenched with sadness.

Weekend Concepts – Part 1

Weekend Concepts – Part 1

Quote of the day

‘Your weekend formulates an incredible aperture of opportunities for you to explore. Such an adventure enables you to create magical working weeks and a lifetime of magical memories.’

Dear Friends, I wrote this article to inspire you to create those golden goals that I spoke about in the past. With just a mere 47 days before the end of the year we need to create a canvas of dedicated commitments to see an effective change in our lives. Such a change can make a difference between real happiness and constant sadness. Today we hear of the atrocious attacks in France. Sadness fills my heart, and tears cannot express my grief. My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to the families of lost and injured ones. 2016 must be a year of zero atrocities. It is possible to see an overall change if we make an individual change, such a change starts from a blank canvas. What do you etch into your canvas to make 2016 a better year for you? If you look at yourself as a 3D model what is missing in the spatial contour of your life? This is something you need to identify by yourself. My job is to guide you by taking your committed golden goals and turning them into reality. To create those golden goals you need to live a golden life. What is a golden life? I would define a golden life as a life of wonder and splendour draped in excellence and bespoke to your needs. A life of wonder is one filled with miracles. We spoke about this yesterday. You are an achiever and therefore can have anything that you want in life. A life of splendour is a life that has the finery of indulgence draped to suit your style, habits and customs. To be draped in excellence displays your meritocratic characteristic. The world sees you from head to toe and judges you by your noted actions. Having a persona bespoke to your needs makes you unique. You should never be ashamed of your appearance, your eloquence or your stature. These are attributes created by you based on what you see, capture and finally dream of. This is what a golden life is all about. It is about being unique. A separate article on uniqueness will follow soon. You need to start with a blank canvas and slowly etch into what you what to become. This is the creativity of your uniqueness which makes you a human being but different from other people in terms of your goals. Employing your weekends to capture footage from the outside of your abode helps to create those golden dreams. Good Dreams inspire us to take action. They are like premieres of an epic movie. They give you a visualisation of what your life can become. If you are happy with what you saw in your dream then you should pursue it.

REMEMBRANCE

REMEMBRANCE

Quote of the day

‘Remember Each Morning Every Memorable Birthday, Ritual, Anniversary, Notion, Ceremony and Event. Remembrance is a recollection of wonderful memories that jolts you to create even better ones.’

Dear Friends, it is sad to experience bereavement in your life, to feel the hollow and void created by absence of someone you love so dearly. It is sad to feel rejected, subjected, dejected and affected by the daily traumas that await you so unexpectedly. It makes you mad when someone abuses you, squanders your money, violates your ethics, demoralises your principles or humiliates you publicly. Hard to believe but this is the chemistry of human Greed. Dear Friends, to keep our spirits alive and glowing you need REMEMBRANCE. REMEMBRANCE stands for Remember Each Morning Every Memorable Birthday, Ritual, Anniversary, Notion, Ceremony and Event. To remember illustrates your humbleness to appreciate the good things in life that we often forget. Recollection of past happier moments spurs you to make tomorrow or your future even happier. You see Dear Friends, acknowledging and appreciating those wonderful moments in your life often eclipsed by sadder moments helps you to recover from sadness, madness, badness and cruelness. Whenever there is a feeling of sadness I want you to recollect the happier moments in your life and relive them mentally. This helps to soothe your discomfort. One of the most beneficial thoughts that we can carry with us at all times is good and fond memories. Only you will be able to recollect these memories in your own way. I have always stated quite openly that I write as per my feelings for the day. Whatever I relay to you is fresh from my mind, never repeated in anyway and designed to inspire you wherever possible. Why do I do these things that sometimes takes time is very simple? It is to care, share and remain fair to all citizens of planet Earth. It is to care, share and remain fair in the same way that I was shown compassion 21 years ago when my Mum passed away. Yesterday marked the 25th anniversary of my Mum’s death. It was quite an emotional experience for me but REMEMBRANCE helped me to cope and helped me to recollect fond memories of her. I urge you to do the same when you feel sullen, when you are grieving, when you are struggling or when you are ill. What becomes of tomorrow lies entirely on what you think about today.

Feelings

Feelings

Quote of the day

‘Your feelings play a pivotal role in how your day pans out. Feelings that are too emotional can hamper to your daily chores. Feelings that are too personal can place a damper in your life. Feelings that are low spirited can tamper with your goals. Feelings that are too sensitive can you make scamper with vital decisions.’

Stop the madness in life and start the saneness in your heart. Stop the badness that lurks in the corridors of human occupation and start the goodness that existed since the beginning of time. Stop the harshness in the classroom and start the gentleness in your performance. Stop the bleakness in the bedroom and start the cheerfulness that your marriage vows promised. Stop the loneliness that you are succumbed to and find the companionship that awaits you. Stop the slackness at work and create the meticulousness that you promised your employer when you applied for the job. Stop the unfriendliness with your neighbour and start the friendship that can change your life around. It is all about changing negative feelings into positive feelings. Stop the illness that you may succumb to and start the fitness regime that prevents the illness in the first place. Stop the sadness of losing a lost one and start the happiness of enjoying the same person that is here with you. Overcome the toughness of life with tenderness and pleasantness. Overcome neediness with tenderness. Overcome seriousness with earnestness and brightness. Turn competitiveness into fairness. Dear Friends, your life is important and valuable therefore you need to live it in a happy frame of mind rather than a sad one. Sadness achieves a zero output, happiness achieves a maximum output. If you have a sad emotion you need to understand it and then learn to deal with it. If you are aware of sad moments then look to avoid them. Did you have a warm start to the beginning of your new working week? If not, where did it all go wrong? Are your feelings getting in the way of your progress? Are you too emotional, sensitive or moody? To establish a certain level of success you need to be high spirited, maintain a steady flow and be happy. It is hard when you over sensitive to what you see, hear or read. What has to be done must be done irrespective of your feelings. When we express our feelings of sadness, madness, gladness, badness, happiness, slackness or kindness there is a reaction. You see Dear Friends, to every action there is an equal and augmented reaction. If you express sadness at home then the reaction is often augmented and everyone at home becomes sad. If you express kindness at home then everyone at home becomes equally kind augmenting compassion and thoughtfulness in one’s soul. If you express badness on the streets then evilness flows freely triggers a mob like effect and causing other people to respond in a same way. A bit like a mob or a bunch of hooligans. Meritocratic Goal Setters of whom you are and shall always want to be are aware of how our moods can change. We are aware that if we slumber into a mood swing that is negative then we shall invariably ruin our day. Good news and bad news always comes upon us. How we deal with these changing topics determines the outcome of our day. We need to remain calm, we need to maintain our temperament and we need to show compassion. Life is always filled with highs and lows. We need to meets these variances with a certain degree of expertise. We need to love, we need to care, we need to share and we need to be fair. As long as we maintain these virtues coping with sad and unkind periods in our lives becomes a lot easier.

STOP the Sadness, START the Happiness in life

STOP the Sadness, START the Happiness in life

Quote of the day

‘Polarising your life from a sad one to a happy changing the course of your life. Cruelty that you were exposed to becomes kindness, cold-heartedness turns into compassion and sorrow becomes joy.’

Dear Friends, sadness has held a prominent place in my life from the age of 3 and from all the activities I was engaged in sadness ensured that I was a non-achiever from head to toe. It was only at the age of 35 did I really and truly experience the sound of true happiness. It came to me in a revelation and touched my heart like never before. Today I want to share those experiences with you and to tell you how I polarised my sadness and changed it into everlasting happiness. Today I want you to polarise your sadness and change it into happiness too. Yes, I want you to STOP the sadness in October and START the happiness in your life. I want you to wake up to the tingling sound of happiness as it chimes through your home, with a verbosity of constant inspiration and motivation, a bit like opening your curtain and letting the sunshine fill your heart and listening to the sound of the birds and the bees as you open your window. Happiness is the ecstasy that makes you spring out of bed like a child that aims for laughter during the day. Laughter releasing the tension from your muscles and promotes a smile that captures the day. Happiness brings joy to every cell in your body fighting off the cancerous cells waiting to make you sad. Happiness is an antidote to depression, suppression, oppression and repression. Happiness is 100% elation that makes you drift into a cloud nine scenario making you float into the wonders of your dreams. Happiness is the thrill to be alive in the 21st Century exercising roles that are befitted to your capabilities and wishes. You are the maker of your wishes and your wishes will come true if you polarise your life from a sad one to a happy one. You simply have to believe. Happiness is about the pleasure to serve our Heavenly Father daily with love and untainted devotion. Why are we here, living in 21st Century if we do not have a purpose in life. How can we fulfil that purpose if we remain unhappy? Happiness is the converse of sadness. Sadness brings about madness and rules out the gentleness, kindness and politeness in your mind. Sadness betrays you and makes you sit in a rut of grief, sorrow and unhappiness. Sadness is the misery that life can offer. Sadness makes you depressed and a non-achiever.  Yes, Sadness Dear Friends is a very depressing tool and if you use it constantly it will ruin your life forever. Dear Friends, I say onto and verily too polarise your thoughts and make sadness a thing of the past. Start at home and clean the cobwebs that hold bitter memories of the past. Shine the tarnish in your home that makes your life sad with positivity. Wake up and taste the contentment that happiness can bring to your life. Happiness is free and does not come at a subscription premium. Happiness is the jollity of giving and receiving. Happiness makes your spirits high. Happiness is about the merriness of an autumn day where the leaves create an artistic canvas of infinite joviality. Happiness is your friend. Carry Happiness like you would carry your phone or your wallet and meet the world with a passport that makes all the difference.

PATIENCE

Quote of the day

‘Patience And Tolerance Incites Enlightening New Concepts Every day.’

Tomorrow sees the start to a new working week for us all. To many there will be sadness, to some there will be gladness and to others there will be almost madness. All our daily activates seem to stem from two words called Dollars and Cents. If you don’t have it you are sad, if you have it you are glad and if you greedy to get more and more then you are mad. I say onto you and verily too be grateful for your life and for your presence on planet Earth. Consider your health first and your wealth will take care of itself. I say this vehemently because without good health you cannot manufacture wealth. Patience makes you understand that everything in life takes time. Time is important from a simple second to a long and trying 100 years. There is so much you can do productively and effectively in 100 years if you have Patience by your side. A meritocratic Goal Setter will also understand that Tolerance is equally important. Add the two together and you have the prefect mode to keep you spirited for the rest of your life. Patience is the staying power that keeps your dreams alive and your goals in momentum. With patience a meritocratic Goal Setter understands fully that any concept no matter how big or small takes times. Tolerance is about being open-minded in all your daily tasks knowing well that in life there will be the usual ups and the downs. Add the two together and you have enlightenment. It is like lighting a candle. Without a match there is no ignition. Without the candle there is no light. You need Patience and Tolerance to incite Enlightenment. With enlightenment your ideas become doable, usable, viable and renewable. I want you to wake up tomorrow morning with a dose of patience and tolerance. So, if the train is late I want you to expect that and find an alternative mode of transport. If someone brushes you on the street ignore it and move on. Be alert and vigilant to avoid a similar confrontation. Keep your mind active each second of your day. Be like a professional driver that has his or her responsibilities at the forefront of their job. Be glad rather than sad and certainly don’t become mad. The use of the word mad in this article implies becoming angry when things don’t work out as per your agenda.

Do not worry

Do not worry

Quote of the day

‘Do not worry for you shall only remain sorry. Let your life hold an epic story free from worries, let it start from today. Let today be a celebration of a new era in your life.’

Dear Friends we spend valuable time each day worrying about the fallacies of our lives. We waste as a result precious time that can never be recovered. I always believe if you make a mistake in your life you need to amend it, with immediate effect. Don’t descend by worrying about it but ascend instead by learning from your experiences. Share these experiences with other people such as friends and families so that they may become equally aware and vigilant. Life is a learning curve, everything around us is something new, from a word to a living organism, from a business deal to a high tech device and as a result we are burning our fingers all the time. We must learn from our mistakes rather than burn from our mistakes. Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls, do not worry for you are not meant to worry at all. Worrying is just a waste of valuable time. Your life on Earth is limited to 100 years. Every second of those vital 100 years is precious outweighing the value of any currency or gem. Worrying is a definable quantum and the greater your worries, the deeper your troubles are. Everyone is constantly making mistakes, some live in denial whilst others spend time on trial. Being on trial makes you live in hardship, it makes you display emotional pain and suffering.  I want you to treat every second of your life from now on as a special second that compounds to a special individual. Yes, that special Individual is the new you pacing the Earth during the 21st Century with a mellow tone of Happiness and Joy. Always remember never live in fear, always live in anticipation of the next second in your life. Be alert of the troublemakers, the matchmakers, the drug-makers, the money-makers, the noisemakers, the housebreakers and the lawbreakers. Learn from your mistakes and use these errors in your life as a reminder that you shall never make them again. Write them down, refer to them but never forget them. Worrying is a strong inhibitor in your life and leads to your daily confusion, seclusion and disillusions. You achieve nothing by worrying. Worrying triggers the opposite side of Happiness and Joy. Do you really need sadness and sorrow in your life? Worrying can lessen your lifespan, causing you to age more quickly and may lead to a possible heart attack. Worrying will always make you stumble, crumble, fumble, tumble and bumble. As a meritocratic Goal Setter do you really need to stumble when important decisions need to be made? Do you need to crumble when things fall apart? Do you really need to fumble with repetition? Do you need to tumble into the same pit of remorse and heartache? Do you bumble at your next decision? It is all about precision timing and advanced climbing. Life is all about ascending to the pinnacle of your success. Everything you do, say or think has be done at the right time and at the right place. Every right makes you climb up a rung in the ladder of success. Beware of the snakes waiting in the enclosures of darkness to bite you and take your fortune away.

Want or Need

Want or Need

Quote of the day

‘There is a distinct difference between a WANT and a NEED, knowing the difference can make all the difference. Not knowing the difference can ultimately result in happiness or sadness.

Dear Friends, it is important to distinguish between a WANT and a NEED. This distinction can make an overall difference to your life. Your life is indeed a precious gift and is equated with time. Each second that you waste over the duration of your life can result in either the lessening of your lifespan or living in remorse. To have the good things in life requires a certain degree of input on your part. However finding the right things in life bespoke to your very NEEDS can be quite a daunting task. We often emulate what we see but do not necessarily step into the right shoes. Temptation is also a menacing attraction that lures you to your demise (The use of the word demise in this instance refers to your downfall). A WANT can best described as a wish or yearn but does necessarily indicate that you really want it. You are constantly seeing things in front of you like a sequence on a celluloid film. Advertising is designed to do just that. Your quest in life is to live by request. In other words if you NEED something pertinent to your requirements you NEED to request for information on that product, service or advice. You NEED to scan through the information, test drive them if you have to or simply reject. You are the decision maker. A NEED forms the essential part of your requisite. I need the essentials commodities in life to survive. I need money to meet my expenses. I need to learn a trade or I need to pass my driving test. Live by request, gain some testimonials and look for the shoe that fits. Don’t rush into things, don’t allow the WANTS in your life to ruin happier moments. Life is about Happiness and Joy, this is a daily process and lasts for 100 years. What is the purpose of living if you are saddle strapped to the common fallacies in life? Make a good decision and stick to it. However you must remember that good decisions do take time. If you need something search for it. Once you have found it then do your research. The art of researching often yields three results. The first result makes it a NEED. The second result makes you understand that it is a WANT. The third result is somewhat obscure, it is either a yes or a no. Stick to the first result at all times. If there is a doubt just leave it or reject it. You not compelled to say yes without thinking about it first. Always say no to temptation.

Dos and Don’ts

Dos and Don’ts

Quote of the day

‘Life is made up of dos and don’ts. Success in life is about conforming to the right decisions. These decisions ultimately define how you perform henceforth.’

Doing the right things in life is usually harder than doing the wrong things in life. You know when you have done wrong because you usually feel a sense of dismay. When you do things right you always feel right. Today I want to highlight a series of dos and don’ts to assist you when you are making constant decisions in your life. Every decision you make in life is prompted by a vision. These envisions are normally incited in you through the power of temptation such as advertisements and catchphrases. I want you to make the right decision in life from buying a loaf of bread to the possible ultimate indulgence, a Rolls Royce. Decisions must be your own, thought of with thoroughness and sieved through the archives of research. Don’t be hasty, take your time. It is your life and therefore you are responsible for it.

Don’t get mad over the sad affairs of the world, be glad that you are here to make significant changes. Don’t overeat when you know well what to eat and how much to eat. Don’t lust when you are actually designed to love. Don’t sign on the dotted line before actually reading above the dotted line. Don’t create enemies when friends are a lot easier to cope with. Don’t live in conflict for conflict inflicts serious wounds. Don’t confront or be blunt for that matter when you meet someone. Don’t commit adultery, fornication or even masturbation. Don’t remain idle or become suicidal, look for an idol that will turn your life around. Don’t live by intimidation, fall into a bout of negation or resort to aggravation. Don’t live by discrimination when you know well that it is often better to live by differentiation.  Don’t criticise another human being, don’t exercise arrogance over their demeanour or publicise rumours about them. Don’t wander the streets without a cause or wander the streets with discourse. Don’t live to hate or constantly berate someone for no reason at all. Don’t accelerate unnecessarily. Don’t exercise the concepts of ugliness, loneliness, enviousness and unfriendliness. Don’t litter or be bitter. Don’t fight with all you’re might and carry it through the night. Don’t waste or haste for you are not in a race. Don’t borrow for you usually end up feeling sorrow.

Do exercise love from dawn to dusk. Do start your day with a prayer and end it harmoniously with gratitude. Do create friends and put an end to enemies. Do exercise regularly and eat moderately and considerately. Do well in whatever faculty you choose to enter into. Do love the diversity of nature from the flora to the fauna. Do recycle and consider getting on your bicycle more often. Do decelerate from time to time. Do the right things in life to ensure that nothing will go wrong. Do love your neighbour and know them by their names. Do greet each other at home, on the streets and at work every single day. Do smile for a smile makes you go the extra mile. Do donate to those that need your help and accommodate those that you can help. Do maintain cleanliness at all times and exercise friendliness every time. Do enjoy your life every second of the day and appreciate your wife eternally. Do love thy Heavenly Father with all your heart and with all your strength. Do keep the weeds at bay and exercise good deeds every day. Do plant a seed of hope whenever there is a need to cope. Do promise to be gay every single day to avoid the onslaught of being dismay. Do say sorry rather than worry. Do eat healthy to remain wealthy. Do listen when you are spoken to. Do learn to speak so that you will always be heard. Do run for a mile and have fun with a noted smile. Do marry for the right reasons rather than remarry for the wrong reasons. Do what you think is right rather than do what you know is wrong. Do learn to earn, do learn to avoid being stern and do learn to do a good turn. Do show signs of appreciation rather than distinct lines of depreciation. Do keep yourself in good shape and escape from the foods and idleness that keeps you out of shape. Do love to live and live to love. Do learn to save rather than work like a slave. Do learn to be brave, behave and to avoid the close shave.

Dos and Don’ts play a pivotal role in how your life shall pan out. I say onto you and verily too do what you feel is unselfish and don’t do what is selfish. Have a great weekend.

The Winds of Change

‘The Winds of Change.’

Quote of the day

‘The Winds of Change is a current of air that reaches you in the very early hours of the morning when demons fall asleep, uplifting your spirits, brightening your day and carrying you onto cloud 9. The Winds of Darkness on the other hand is the converse. It is a colder air dropping your spirits, saddening your day, your life and your goals.’

Many of us seek enlightenment each day to brighten our spirits and make us perform as per our abilities and capabilities. We start our day sincerely with a prayer and end it gracefully with gratitude. We write goals down to conquer in a given time but alas these goals soon fizzle away. We seek to be humble but generally stumble on the first word of our sentence or the first movement of our action. Why is this? Why do we not move freely and justly despite our intent to be content? We pray, we try to have a good day, we obey, we avoid staying away from work or school, we play with a reasonable amount of gentle display and we never sway from our agenda for the day. Why do we not proceed as per our intentions, why do our goals not transpire and why do we become laden with problems instead? The answer is sad but quite obvious, like a magnet there are two opposing forces. It is the force of goodness and the force of badness. It is the Winds of Change and The Winds of Darkness. These two opposing forces always plays havoc with me, with you, with him, with her, with them and with the whole world. Easy targets become easy victims. I say onto you and verily too, you need to be aware of these opposing forces. Do you need proof, then read your daily newspaper and you will see openly these two opposing forces in action. You will see how The Winds of Darkness has made man so vile, so beguile, so hostile and so scrupulously versatile. You will see death written in bold writing and you will see pictures that are macabre and shocking. You will see poverty in reality and you will see hunger in the younger generation. You will see or read about kidnapping, extortion, rape, murder, ostracism, terrorism and about sorcery. You will see the opposing force in action waiting to recruit me, you, him, her, them and the whole world. It is not easy when The Winds of Change is alive and forbearing. The Winds of Change is like an echo that travels the world resounding in areas of sadness and uplifting in areas of madness. The Winds of Change is like a gentle breeze, so warm and so comforting. It is an airstream that comes from above that meanders it way into the corridors of darkness. So, if 2015 has not started off in the way you imagined then you need to spend the weekend in extreme relaxation and magnificence and feel this gentle breeze and latch onto it forever. Relaxation is about reducing the effects of stress, assessing your progress and then to finally convalesce. Magnificence is about the splendour and grandeur of life, especially yours in this instance. It is about the glory of succeeding and the beauty of living. When you realise this you will start Monday with a different attitude. You will be aware of the pull towards sadness and madness and you will be aware of the pull towards goodness and fairness. Like a captain or a pilot you need to hold tight onto your rudder and steer your intent into the sea of goodness living your life in awareness and in anticipation. Do this for you and watch how strong you shall become fighting the storm with a fleet of good deeds and a sword that slices in badness into little shreds. It is never too late to start.

Coldness and Warmness

Coldness and Warmness.

Quote of the day

‘Coldness defines the extremities of weather patterns and coldness describes the extremities of emotionlessness in people. Warmness can refer to the extremities of weather patterns around the globe but also defines the kind-heartedness that exists in people.’

To be successful in life you need to be warm. You need to be warm at heart, warm to the core, warm in thoughts and warm in your vision. Warmness defines the sincerity of a person. A sincere person displays trust and are generally quite truthful. Warmness clears the air where unfriendliness is the master. Warmness is about kindness.  To show kindness to another human being exhibits your compassion. Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls you cannot start your day with coldness. You cannot throw emotionlessness when there is sorrow, poverty, grief and despair. This is not a trademark of a meritocratic Goal Setter. Coldness is typical of a taciturnity individual, silent when spoken to and distant when needed. Coldness is certainly stoniness. Coldness eats into the hearts of individuals. When you are around a cold person you can feel the chill and the ill will. Dear Friends how warm life can be if people choose to be friendly, kind, warm and affectionate. A friendly person is the one that will show you the pleasantness in life and hold your hands by guiding you to the wonders of The Creation.  A kind person is one that demonstrates compassion, consideration and thoughtfulness. Make your choice, warm or cold. For the merits of a goals setter I will choose warmness, I really would for it defines my life and the role I exercise during my stay on planet Earth. I aim to be warm and to touch the souls and hearts of people that are saddened by their circumstances.

Greet the day, Meet the day and be Sweet on the day

‘Greet the day, Meet the day and be sweet on the day’

Quote of the day

‘Every day is an epoch in your life, therefore you need to greet, meet and be sweet each day from diurnal to nocturnal. Do this and a bespoke treat awaits you that will complete 2015 in a magnificent way.’

Nothing can take away take the delight of sweetness. Sweetness is like the pureness of the heavens above. Sweetness is about adoring your life and the lives of other people that make the world so wonderful and appealing. Sweetness is about harmony in the corridors of your occupancy. Sweetness is the pleasantness of your life and of the lives of people that mingle with you. Sweetness is about the mellifluousness of enrichment from the subtleness of the angels above that keep us warm to the angels below that hold our hands when we walk alone. Sweetness is about the beauty of our planet, about the curvature of the valleys and the undulations of the waves that hit the breakers in a gentle touch. Sweetness is about the loveliness of your heart, your soul and your mind pouring with the zest to do well onto others. Sweetness is about the freshness of nature that fills the saddened and polluted air with new bursts of fresh and aromatic molecules waiting to profuse the atmosphere. Sweetness is about the melody that the birds chirp and the harmony of the gently breeze that floats amongst the leaves. Without sweetness there is harshness, sourness and unkindness. Don’t start your day without sweetness. Greet the day with bouts of laughter that can be heard a distant away. Smile at someone and give a helping hand to the ant that wandered off course. Greet the dandelion the hovers above you and greet the spider that looks over you. Greet the elderly and make them feel warm and appreciated. Greet the Bus Driver, greet the florist, greet the milkman and greet the janitor. Every little greet creates a happy street. Every little greet makes the world look neat. Every little greet is like a special treat for someone else. Meet your day with bravery and courage. Meet possibilities and meet impossibilities. Meet sadness with gladness. Meet poverty with a gesture of goodwill. Meet abuse with a compliment. Meet rejection with eventual acceptance. Meet negativity with a dose of positivity. Meet the Preacher, meet the Teacher, meet the creatures too that crawl with 8 or 100 legs. Meet the insult by hoping for a better result. Meet the day with sweetness and greet the day with your genuine love. Do this for the next 362 days and a treat bespoke to your needs shall await you before the dawn of 2016.

It is Often Easy to tease but hard to Please

‘It is often easy to tease but hard to please’

Quote of the day

‘Life can be hard or easy. It is easy to tease, to displease, to acquire a disease or to say cheese. On the other hand it is hard to please, be at ease, to find the right keys or to go overseas.’

When I reminiscence over my good old days when joy and happiness was at the pinnacle of my days it made realise how pleasant life can really be. It made me think of how tomorrow and my future on Earth can become. Am I going to spend my days miserable and unhappy or am I going to maintain the rhythm of keeping happy and joyful? What makes a person’s day happy and joyful? Is it materialistic things in life or is the joy of living life to the fullest? I think there are several reasons that can make you happy. The main reason is to establish what makes you happy. Remembering the good old days when you were happy helps. It recalls what made you happy and what makes you sad. It is easy to tease, to displease, to acquire a disease or to say cheese. On the other hand it is hard to please, be at ease, to find the right keys or to go overseas. By teasing, displeasing or by acquiring a disease we are actually making ourselves and the lives of other quite unhappy. Teasing is about making fun at the expense of someone else. It is a provocative type of behaviour that can make your days on earth lonely and unwanted. To be displeasing to someone can be quite hurtful and offensive. It is a horrid deed to exercise and by doing just that makes your day unhappy and unjoyful as well. By acquiring a disease due to negligence can be a painful and sometimes debilitating experience in life. You as well as those close to you become sad and despondent. So, when you looked back over your life and highlighted those high and low days you will find that the root cause of your highs and  lows were in fact you. It is always harder to do good deeds that brings smiles to people faces and their hearts. It is hard to please others as well as yourself but you just need to constantly try and try. It is hard to maintain an affluent lifestyle or simply to be at ease. It is often hard to open the doors of opportunities because you simply cannot find the right keys. Again. I say try your very best to persevere. Keeping looking and you shall find whatever you are looking for. Make tomorrow and the rest of your life be pampered with joy and happiness instead of sadness and unhappiness. It is all about your input and what triggers you to be happy and joyful!