146 done, 220 to go

146 done, 220 to go

Quote of the day

‘146 days have gone by in a year of change, in a year to arrange, in a year to exchange and in a year of incredible range. If you started late no worries, if you are running late don’t scurry and if you haven’t started at all there is no need to hurry. You have 220 more days to reach the summit of your dreams.’

A heartfelt welcome to the final midweek of May 2016. It certainly was the month of resistivity. Building the resistance to overcome the hurdles in your life is not a daunting task as one would expect it to be. It actually can be a haunting task if you don’t do anything about it. However, it certainly is an enchanting task if you did something about it. Time is of the essence for your time on planet Earth is finite therefore you need to perform at your level best at all times. You need to be warm and loving in your attitude towards other people and you need to transform a negative situation into a positive one. You need to conform to a certain standard that seems reasonable and you need to inform others of what is right and what is wrong. You need to form a good image of yourself that lingers in the minds of other people. You need to reform from some abnormalities that you may have. All of these things can be done for you have time to do so. Achieving goals without elementary and foundation rules is of no real value. Don’t let a single day slip pass you. Grasp onto a tiny second with all you’re might and only release it when you have used it wisely. Talk to the world in a language that is calm, gentle and unselfish. Don’t blow your top simply keep your hat on. Don’t worry if you are a late starter. Great men and women that have done good were very late starters in life. They will never be judged for their lateness but applauded for their sweetness, their greatness and their neatness. Don’t worry if you are running late for its often better late than never. It’s better to be great than full of hate. It’s better to be straight then to frustrate someone. It’s better to be a teammate rather than a cheapskate. If you haven’t started at all don’t hurry. Don’t carry an undue laden of worries or bury your troubles. Don’t feel dreary on your journey to success. Always be merry rather than weary. All things great started from nothing. Start now, start tomorrow, start next week but make a start. It is never too late for anything in life. Count your seconds as you would count your pennies. Count your blessings as you are progressing. Always be a universal friend that cares, shares and remains fair. The essence of life is not to be afraid to take a lesson in improving yourself. Love you all from the bottom of my heart. Take care wherever you go. Use every second of your life profitably.

‘The difference between Sorry and Retribution.’

‘The difference between Sorry and Retribution.’

Quote of the day

‘It helps to say sorry for the word sorry can diminish the tension of a worry. Retribution on the other hand eliminates a worry and grants an individual the right to move on in the right way, along the right path and towards a righteous future, showing by example and leading by example.’

A divine and hearty welcome to the final day of yet another working week in our life in the year 2015. With just 20 days left to greet a New Year and of course a further 3 weeks of wrapping-up our affairs I think it is an appropriate time to say Sorry. I am very sorry for all the wrongs that I have made in my life but in particular for the wrongs that I made in the year 2015. It takes courage to say sorry especially publically because it is quite embarrassing. 21 years ago I was inspired to start all over again but I still make mistakes, fortunately my mistakes are not as bad as before. Today I say with gallantry that I am sorry and I know that the mistakes that I will make in 2016 will be new ones and lessening ones of course. This is part and parcel of the process of growing up and getting matured both physically and mentally. Dear Friends, it does not hurt to say sorry. Sorry diminishes the tension of a related worry. A worry is about your very own personal lorry of how much of apprehension, anxiety and fear it can hold. We all are laden with different levels of worries. No matter what your worries are or how deep they really are it can be unloaded. Sometimes it is not hard to seek assistance. Professional assistance can lessen the burden that you carry with you daily. When I look at a New Year I look at ways of reducing my laden. I look at the mistakes I made of concurrent affairs rather than memories of yesteryear. Concurrent affairs are fresh. Memories of yesterday are often a blur and can only be remembered with inaccuracies. I am concerned about the mistakes I made in 2015 and more importantly I want to say sorry openly for them. Sorry acknowledges the mistake but it is not entirely effective. We need to follow on with the action of Retribution. Yesterday we spoke about following on a gesture of Thank You with the action of Appreciation and if applied as described creates the prefect results. Similarly, today I want to drive home the message that a spoken word of sorry MUST be followed on by an action of Retribution. What does the word Retribution mean? The word retribution has many meanings. However, in our inspirational context for today we are using the word Retribution to mean self-punishment for the mistake that you incurred. Let us look at several examples. You accidently broke an expensive vase and said sorry. Retribution on the other follows on by making you to clean up thoroughly ensuring all shattered pieces are vacuumed. You then offer to replace it. Sometimes this may be hard, especially if the shattered vase is expensive or irreplaceable. However what matters is that you followed the right protocol. You said sorry and followed on with Retribution. Retribution is very effective when it comes from your heart. Your gesture is then complete. In others words you looked to compensate after saying sorry. You felt sorry and offered to compensate. The lesson learnt is that in the future you will be more careful even though it can be quite an expensive mistake. People will respect you for your decency and your noted gallantry. They will also remember you for your noted decency and your noted gallantry. When you meet an accident such as a collision with another vehicle do you say sorry are you prepared to follow on with Retribution. Most people try to evade what really happened to prevent accepting liability. The correct procedure is to say sorry and follow on with retribution. You should ask if you could help, you should find out if there are any injuries. If so reach for your mobile and call for assistance. If it is your mistake accept it and learn from it. Try to remain calm, polite and apologetic. Although your insurance will settle the claim be prepared to have your no-claim bonus altered. May I wish you a pleasant Friday and as you wrap up your affairs for the week ending on the 11th of December 2015, think about your weekend. Use it profitably. Try to tie any loose ends and try to start fresh in the New Year. If there is an underlying problem, let us work together to resolve it. Help is always available you just need to let someone know.

The life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter

The life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter

Quote of the day

‘The Life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter is always focussed on getting the job done with perfection, affection, direction and selection, a strategy I call PADS. Keeping your PADS on will always ensure a successful day let alone a successful life.’

Have you got your PADS on, a meritocratic Goal Setters always keeps their PADS on. They believe in Perfection, Affection, Direction and Selection. Meritocratic Goal Setters are Perfectionists. They seek accomplishment and fulfilment on a grand scale. They aim for a faultless display of accolades achieved in the best possible way and in the most unselfish way. They have Direction in what they do from dawn to dusk and from dusk to dawn. They plan before they take action. They map their charter with precision identifying each aspect of their daily agenda with great management and control. They believe in affection. They are friendly to the core, generous to restore and loving to adore. They have a broad range of interests, an assortment of hobbies, a range of talents and a variety of achievements. They certainly have a noted selection to be proud of. Dear Friends you could do the same. If your life is perplexed with worries, debts, illness, sadness, bereavement or confusion, fear not for all of these anomalies can soon disappear? Like an ailment there is always a prescription at hand. The world is your oyster and the pearl is your treasure you just need the courage to accept it. So, when doubt sets in or trouble stands at your front door consolidate your life into something more purposeful by becoming a meritocratic goal setter. A meritocratic goal setter has no trace of doubt in their heart for they place reliance on Almighty GOD. They keep their PADS on at all times and meet their day with courage and determination. They have faith in their abilities and capabilities and never lose hope when it matters most. They start their day in prayer and end it with gratitude. They carry their TAG with them at ALL times. (TAG stands for Trust Almighty GOD). They open the windows of their lives each day and inhale the warmth of living it. They believe in keeping fit, fecund and safe. They are active both mentally and physically. They mingle in company that encourages them and avoid company that discourages them.

Do not worry

Do not worry

Quote of the day

‘Do not worry for you shall only remain sorry. Let your life hold an epic story free from worries, let it start from today. Let today be a celebration of a new era in your life.’

Dear Friends we spend valuable time each day worrying about the fallacies of our lives. We waste as a result precious time that can never be recovered. I always believe if you make a mistake in your life you need to amend it, with immediate effect. Don’t descend by worrying about it but ascend instead by learning from your experiences. Share these experiences with other people such as friends and families so that they may become equally aware and vigilant. Life is a learning curve, everything around us is something new, from a word to a living organism, from a business deal to a high tech device and as a result we are burning our fingers all the time. We must learn from our mistakes rather than burn from our mistakes. Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls, do not worry for you are not meant to worry at all. Worrying is just a waste of valuable time. Your life on Earth is limited to 100 years. Every second of those vital 100 years is precious outweighing the value of any currency or gem. Worrying is a definable quantum and the greater your worries, the deeper your troubles are. Everyone is constantly making mistakes, some live in denial whilst others spend time on trial. Being on trial makes you live in hardship, it makes you display emotional pain and suffering.  I want you to treat every second of your life from now on as a special second that compounds to a special individual. Yes, that special Individual is the new you pacing the Earth during the 21st Century with a mellow tone of Happiness and Joy. Always remember never live in fear, always live in anticipation of the next second in your life. Be alert of the troublemakers, the matchmakers, the drug-makers, the money-makers, the noisemakers, the housebreakers and the lawbreakers. Learn from your mistakes and use these errors in your life as a reminder that you shall never make them again. Write them down, refer to them but never forget them. Worrying is a strong inhibitor in your life and leads to your daily confusion, seclusion and disillusions. You achieve nothing by worrying. Worrying triggers the opposite side of Happiness and Joy. Do you really need sadness and sorrow in your life? Worrying can lessen your lifespan, causing you to age more quickly and may lead to a possible heart attack. Worrying will always make you stumble, crumble, fumble, tumble and bumble. As a meritocratic Goal Setter do you really need to stumble when important decisions need to be made? Do you need to crumble when things fall apart? Do you really need to fumble with repetition? Do you need to tumble into the same pit of remorse and heartache? Do you bumble at your next decision? It is all about precision timing and advanced climbing. Life is all about ascending to the pinnacle of your success. Everything you do, say or think has be done at the right time and at the right place. Every right makes you climb up a rung in the ladder of success. Beware of the snakes waiting in the enclosures of darkness to bite you and take your fortune away.

HOW

HOW

Quote of the day

‘HOW I become a tycoon is directly proportional to HOW I think. My capacity to think must also be proportional to what I can actually do.’

It is my greatest pleasure to write this article today for it does portray the seriousness of HOW we can make our lives more plentiful and more fruitful. The word HOW if asked directly to yourself can change the history you create tomorrow. Here are some typical questions that we need to ask ourselves, openly and honestly. HOW are you today? If you are not okay than your performance for the day is already affected. HOW do you think determines what becomes of today and possibly for the rest of your life. HOW is the way forward? How do I address my meeting or presentation today? HOW do I eradicate my problems? HOW much of time shall I spend on this particular task? HOW easy is it for me to become successful? HOW is indeed an important word? HOW am I doing?  HOW much of progress have I made in in 2015. HOW shall I stop problems from growing? HOW shall I create friends and eliminate enemies? It all lies in the way you think. Build fear within you and you shall live a life filled with worries and anxieties. Change this to self-assurance and your worries and anxieties will slow disappear. It all boils down to the way you think. Our theme for the month of June is to think like a tycoon. THINK! THINK! THINK! A Tycoon always thinks about self-confidence, poise and composure. They think BIG. They think about tomorrow well in advance and plan a way forward. Their composure is generally calm mixed with a bit of adventure and vigilance. They follow written instructions that has previously worked and they abide by the rules of their country. They stand with dignity and walk with grace. They exercise care in all their performances from dawn to dusk. For us to do the same we need to recite the following. HOW I become a tycoon is directly proportional to HOW I think. Think big and you shall become big. Think about tomorrow and you will plan in advance. Think about your health and you will adjust your diet to accommodate your needs. Think about your time and you will manage your time accordingly. Think about your meeting or presentation in advance and you will excel in it. It is not only thinking about what you want but also about what other people need. Your presentation for example must reflect a common cause suitable for you or for someone else. You need to think about your resolutions that you made at the beginning of this year and you need to establish what progress have you made thus far. Did you achieve your goals or are you on the right path to execute them in due course? The power to think enables you to find the way to do things, to establish a known and proven methodology, to exact your next move and more importantly to keep your goals at bay. The power to think must also reflect the following. My capacity to think must also be proportional to what I can actually do. Think within your capabilities rather than think beyond your capabilities. Doing this enables you to write down an agenda for the day that can be effectively completed with the least amount of hassles. This then portrays what sort of a tycoon you shall be. Do you want to be like Gates, Bryanston or Buffet? There is no harm in finding your role model but it is more important to think of what you really want rather than achieve something that someone else has.

‘Jumping your 1^st Hurdle’

Quote of the day

‘The 1^st hurdle to conquer is often the greatest fete a human being can take. A toddler takes the 1^st step but falls down. A pupil learns their timetables but forgets them the next day. Every 1^st hurdle is hard to conquer. What can be learnt from the 1^st hurdle is that everyone tries again and again until they get it right.’

Every problem no matter how big or small will remain a problem until you do something about it. If you are obese you will remain obese unless you take strides to remove the grease from foods and the crease from your skin. This constitutes your 1st step. Cross the 1st hurdle by removing any greasy foods from your diet. This can be hard. The hurdle is there and if you cross it you would have excelled in the 1st day. As you know this is often the most difficult thing ever to do. There are too many distractions, there isn’t enough support and temptation will always win you over. What do you do if you fail on your 1st day? You have to try again and again and again. You have to submerge yourself into an atmosphere or temperament that nudges you do take the 1st jump over your 1st hurdle. What if you are in debt? Debt is bad, it lets you sweat, fret and remain under constant threat. What can you do? Where shall you start? Consolidation is the easy hurdle to cross but are you willing to commit? Are you willing to take pen to paper and write down all your liabilities and compare them with your income? Jumping the 1st hurdle can become easy if you are passionate about something. A baby is very passionate to learn how to walk. The 1st step or hurdle is the hardest but passion drives the baby to keep trying and trying. It may take a few weeks, it may take even longer but the result is stability, flexibility and infallibility. You just have to try to cross the 1st hurdle in your life. This exhibits your innermost desire to make a change in your life and to reach the summit of your happiness, success and prosperity. You need to capitalise on hope. Hope is derivative from the confidence you mustered up by believing and by having trust in yourself and GOD. Hope is like a lifeline. Hope teaches you that only you can undo what you have already done before. Try your utmost to identify your problems no matter how big or small. Write them down. Discuss them with someone else. Work together, work as a family or work as a team. Once identified choose the easiest problem to conquer. Let this be your 1st hurdle to cross. Now cross it. Did you make a start or did you make a mess of it. If so, start again. You have to keep trying. You have to know in your mind that you can undo something that you have already done. Again if you put on weight than you can undo it. Is weight your issue, then cross the 1st hurdle today? Infer your attempts at the end of the day. On a linear scale of 1 – 10 did you do well? If not start again tomorrow. Cut down on the greasy intake, say no to crisps, sweets, chocolates, biscuits, cakes, ice-cream, tarts, pastries, bacon, fries, cold drinks and sugar. Eliminate them completely for the 1st day. Infer your progress at the end of the day. Continue to this until it becomes habit forming. Don’t forget, it is hard admittedly to cross the 1st hurdle but it is a lot easier to try again and again. Just fire up your emotions with passion and desire.

‘Tension in the air’

Quote of the day

‘Tension floats in the air weighted by its pressure ready to fall like rain upon you creating floods of worries, anxiety and stress the world over. Now it is time to open your umbrella and like Cinderella change your life into one that is eased, pleased and relieved.’

Tension is like the rain, it falls upon you and drenches your progress with extensive pressure when you least expect it to. Tension makes you rigid exhibiting stiffness in your body and stiffness in your actions. Tension puts strain on your thought processes. It drains you of your inspiration to do well. On one end you are being inspired and on the other end you are being uninspired. Tension is the converse of relaxation. Let us look at the word relaxation in greater detail. Relaxation is the lessening effect of tension. Relaxation fires you up to do well. This is why I always encourage you to share wholeheartedly your weekends in complete relaxation, you earned it now go out there and enjoy it. Relaxation is also about moderation. You need to slow down the rapid spur of your working week daily chores. Your body and your mind needs that pampering, it needs that boost to revive and survive. Relaxation helps. Relaxation can also be boosted by meditation. Meditation is actually holy medication. Meditation takes you on a spiritual journey, allowing you to contemplate what to do and what you can do. It makes you reflect on what you have already done and how to improve your performance. Meditation is also about acknowledging your soul as your source of eternal life. This is indeed an article on its own but it is an essential part of relaxation. Relaxation is also about self-analysis. I find that self-analysis is the most important aspect of my endeavours. Self-analysis for me makes me understand my needs and does not involve the feelings of others therefore my goals are truly mine and will always be altruistic. Going back to life tensions we need to overcome it by relaxation. I want you to carry this philosophy into October because the theme in October is that it shall be all ‘Over in October’. It shall be the end of your tension days where hectic meets eclectic. November will be less tense and December without tense. Hopefully by the end of December by self-analysis you shall spawn the perfect goals to liberate you 2015. Perfect Goals or as I always state Golden Goals prompts the perfect lifestyle bespoke to your needs. It makes you lead the ideal life, without tension and certainly filled with attention. Without Tension your life will be elevated into a new dimension, free from apprehension, grasping the rudiments of life with full comprehension and living a life that is sublime with contention. Dear Friends, work with me to make your life special. I am here to help. Read each article every single day and print off the ones pertinent to your needs. Download your free eBooks and newsletters and create a blueprint that will help you lead a life that is prosperous and wonderful. I write a Quote a day just for you prepared like a full English breakfast for you to ingest, digest and become less stressed or less tensed. Purchase The Modern Day Trilogy to help you find the right branch in your daily growth to financial freedom. Eat well and do well in all aspects of your earthly life. This is the ideal roadmap to 2015. Take good care and have a great day.