Setting the limits

Setting the limits

Quote of the day

‘The greater your assets, the greater are your responsibilities. You need to set limits so that your responsibilities match your assets. Many a meritocratic goal setter fails at this level of success because they assets often outweighs their responsibilities.’

Welcome to midweek, Dear Friends. It is the last midweek of January 2016. Thank you for tuning in. Midweeks are important to me because it helps me to determine whether I am making good progress during my working week or not. This is the general mind-set that you need to cling onto. Work steadily during your working week and reward yourself with a relaxing weekend. Do this for the rest of your life and you shall be rewarded even greater at the gateway of Heaven. Setting the limits to your goals is quite important because if you cannot balance your assets with your responsibilities you face losing them. A property developer for example can become embroiled in too many properties that he or she may fail to look after their tenants fairly. They just focus on rent, rent and rent and are not willing to spend a cent, another cent or more sense on their responsibilities. Parents aim to have children but when the going gets tough their responsibilities gets tougher. Children often get neglected and eventually feel frustrated. Passing your driving test will often urge you to become a safer driver but the reality changes when you encounter other drivers. Your responsibility as a driver then diminishes. Your test changes to a combination of stress, distress and depress manoeuvres because you encountered road rage. Golden Goals are called golden because you want to achieve them and have the capability to receive them as well as perceive them. Receiving something that you worked so hard for is not just a certificate that hangs on your wall but the acknowledgement of the responsibilities that are attached to it. Perceiving such a goal is equally important such as a car, a home, a child, a qualification, a holiday or a promotion. It makes you understand your responsibilities in full, it makes you feel the reality of your hard work and makes you realise how capable you really are. Dear Friends, I therefore urge you to identify your real needs in life and once you create your assets you need to guarantee them with your responsibilities. The deeper you tread the more oxygen you will need to undertake the responsibilities attached to it. Did you really need that? Was that purchase really necessary? Do you need to go for 14 days instead of 7 days? Did you need to overindulge? Sometimes when we put our foot into we tend to become stuck with it. It is never too late to take your foot out of something. You just need to let go. A lot of us want to hang onto something because of the monetary value attached to it. We just need to let go and deal with the loss. Sometimes giving something away may help someone else. Perhaps you may consider selling it at a lower price. Doctors too follow ethical principles, some forget this and want to make more money like the cardiologist in the USA who overcharged his patients. Dear Friends, success in life comes from time management.  Use every second of your life profitably and effectively. If you made a mistake step back. Think about what you did then seek to resolve. Once resolved you need to start all over again. Have a wonderful midweek. Take your time in making decisions. Take your time in appreciating what you already have. With love and best wishes from your eternal friend.

The life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter

The life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter

Quote of the day

‘The Life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter is always focussed on getting the job done with perfection, affection, direction and selection, a strategy I call PADS. Keeping your PADS on will always ensure a successful day let alone a successful life.’

Have you got your PADS on, a meritocratic Goal Setters always keeps their PADS on. They believe in Perfection, Affection, Direction and Selection. Meritocratic Goal Setters are Perfectionists. They seek accomplishment and fulfilment on a grand scale. They aim for a faultless display of accolades achieved in the best possible way and in the most unselfish way. They have Direction in what they do from dawn to dusk and from dusk to dawn. They plan before they take action. They map their charter with precision identifying each aspect of their daily agenda with great management and control. They believe in affection. They are friendly to the core, generous to restore and loving to adore. They have a broad range of interests, an assortment of hobbies, a range of talents and a variety of achievements. They certainly have a noted selection to be proud of. Dear Friends you could do the same. If your life is perplexed with worries, debts, illness, sadness, bereavement or confusion, fear not for all of these anomalies can soon disappear? Like an ailment there is always a prescription at hand. The world is your oyster and the pearl is your treasure you just need the courage to accept it. So, when doubt sets in or trouble stands at your front door consolidate your life into something more purposeful by becoming a meritocratic goal setter. A meritocratic goal setter has no trace of doubt in their heart for they place reliance on Almighty GOD. They keep their PADS on at all times and meet their day with courage and determination. They have faith in their abilities and capabilities and never lose hope when it matters most. They start their day in prayer and end it with gratitude. They carry their TAG with them at ALL times. (TAG stands for Trust Almighty GOD). They open the windows of their lives each day and inhale the warmth of living it. They believe in keeping fit, fecund and safe. They are active both mentally and physically. They mingle in company that encourages them and avoid company that discourages them.

Good day to you Dear Friends. Getting up each day must be a treasured activity. You cannot get up saying that you feel tired. You cannot utter to yourself or your partner that you don’t have the desire to go to work today. Do you often get the inner feelings of body aches and pains? Does you mind feel incoherent, unable to deduce simple morning signals? A meritocratic Goal Setter feels otherwise.

A meritocratic Goal Setter wakes up with the zest to accomplish. He or she ramifies this thought in their minds before going to bed. They have a clearer vision than any other ordinary human being. You could even describe them as super humans. They have unbelievable energy to compound desire and passion in a regular fashion.

They go the extra mile. They manage their day fruitfully. They take each second of the day and use it profitably. Every second is important to a meritocratic Goal Setter. Breakfast is important and so is lunch followed by a lighter supper. They know the importance of a fueled breakfast to sparkle the need to do profitable work. They eat on time each day and know the good foods from the bad. There is goodness out there but there are also bad foods that induce bad and lethargic feelings.

Eating well makes you act well. It fires you to do things that you could never do before. Meritocratic goals setters leave no stone unturned. Their garden is always neat and tidy. Weeds are constantly removed and larger shrubs regularly pruned. They ensure flower beds are adequate to attract nature’s creatures like bees and birds. They recycle wherever and whenever they can. They go green and do it because of the importance of been green. They care earnestly for the environment.

They get to know their neighbours and walk instead of taking the car. They keep correspondences at bay attending to mail when needed and keep payments manageable and affordable. They keep their homes clean and free from clutter. They dry their clothes naturally rather than use the tumble drier. Their wash clothes only when needed and vacuum their homes regularly to repel unwanted pests.

There is constant activity in a meritocratic Goal Setter. They instill fine qualities in their children and ensure their proper upbringing. They value responsibilities and take responsibilities seriously. There is no room for complacency. They filter out problems with careful analysis. They keep abreast with current affairs and learn new words each day. A meritocratic Goal Setter does fear knowledge, they are willing to learn rather than place emphasis on earn, earn and earn!

How far are you willing to go? How do you spend each second of your day? When does your day start and when does it end? Are you willing to go the extra mile? Are you willing to make adjustments and sacrifices? In order to see change you must be willing to change. It is as simple as that, no different to any successful individual that paces or paced the Earth. Go for it Dear Friends, make a difference to your life with sound and orchestrated movements. Flow with relinquished success rather than fantasised success.