Rejection
Quote
of the day
‘The feeling of rejection is probably the
most negative response an individual could be subjected to. Rejection is
sometimes life threatening and quite debilitating to an innocent victim.’
Application
Quote
‘We are indeed human beings born to serve
with all our heart and with all our strength. If a sense of rejection comes
upon us in an unforeseen way, we need to implement the DIPS concept.’
The DIPS Concept suggests that you analyse
the Direction of the Rejection and then follow on with an Inspection of the Rejection.
Doing this forms, a psychological armour of Protection around you enabling you to
implement an act of discreet Selection. Welcome to your
weekend of private relaxation and rest. It is sadly the last weekend of August
2016 and a wonderful one too, may I add. Today, I want to talk
about Rejection and how it can affect you in different situations. All human beings have taken on the role of
bullies and sadly the ‘Bully Syndrome’ does not stop at school. Bullies wear woollies
to scare you, bullies create casualties, bullies exercise cruelties at all
levels, bullies pick on people with disabilities, bullies have in-built
hostilities within them, bullies create enemies, bullies disrupt friends and families,
bullies can create fatalities, bullies can inflict undue injuries, bullies
exist in all societies and bullies fills your mind with worries. If you are
feeling a sense of Rejection you will find that a bully is behind it. A bully
hides within a click and picks on you rather quick. I say onto you and verily
too when you feel a sense of rejection at home, at work, at school or on the
streets always adopt the DIPS concept. As a Universal Friend your goal in life
is to care, share and remain fair. Therefore, you need to show by example, lead
by example and live by example. You need to analyse the Direction of the
Rejection. Looking ahead helps you to do this. It enables you to be vigilant
and alert of possibilities and impossibilities. Bullies are driven by their
temperament, you simply cannot augment their moods. You need to do an
Inspection. You may need some help here. Inspection is the Science of
Examination. You are feeling Rejection and it hurts, it really does. As a
meritocratic Goal Setter such a Rejection stalls your progress. Examination
makes you understand that you need to let go. You need to let bygones be
bygones. You need to exercise avoidance rather than pursuance. A bully at
school can be used as a classic example. You know the direction of the bullying
which is either in the corridors or in the playground. Once you found the
direction you need to avoid the confrontation. This is where Inspection is
required. Where is safe for me to be? You need to move to a safer zone and to
be amongst other students rather than on your own. You need to flow rather than
walk tiptoe, you need to show that you are not slow and neither are you a
dynamo. You must always remember that you are here on planet Earth as a
certified servant of our Heavenly Father. Such an understanding makes you live
with confidence and filled with acceptance. Nothing will come in your way if
you believe in yourself. This is what I call the psychological Protection. Finally,
you need to apply the Act of Discreet Selection. To understand this, you need
to understand that all human beings are deemed your friends. All human beings
are swayed by their temperament. Therefore, you need to be on your guard. Avoid
the bad mannered individuals, show kindness for the unemployed and the paranoid
and understand the ones that are annoyed. The art of Selection enables you
understand a variety of different problems in life that can cause inhibitions
in your life. Dear friends, if you feel a sense of Rejection always apply the
DIPS concept. It has worked effectively for me in the last 21 years. Soon I
hope to run classes on the various concepts that I teach. I hope that you will
find it invigorating.
