Rejection

Rejection

Quote of the day

‘The feeling of rejection is probably the most negative response an individual could be subjected to. Rejection is sometimes life threatening and quite debilitating to an innocent victim.’

Application Quote

‘We are indeed human beings born to serve with all our heart and with all our strength. If a sense of rejection comes upon us in an unforeseen way, we need to implement the DIPS concept.’

The DIPS Concept suggests that you analyse the Direction of the Rejection and then follow on with an Inspection of the Rejection. Doing this forms, a psychological armour of Protection around you enabling you to implement an act of discreet Selection. Welcome to your weekend of private relaxation and rest. It is sadly the last weekend of August 2016 and a wonderful one too, may I add. Today, I want to talk about Rejection and how it can affect you in different situations.  All human beings have taken on the role of bullies and sadly the ‘Bully Syndrome’ does not stop at school. Bullies wear woollies to scare you, bullies create casualties, bullies exercise cruelties at all levels, bullies pick on people with disabilities, bullies have in-built hostilities within them, bullies create enemies, bullies disrupt friends and families, bullies can create fatalities, bullies can inflict undue injuries, bullies exist in all societies and bullies fills your mind with worries. If you are feeling a sense of Rejection you will find that a bully is behind it. A bully hides within a click and picks on you rather quick. I say onto you and verily too when you feel a sense of rejection at home, at work, at school or on the streets always adopt the DIPS concept. As a Universal Friend your goal in life is to care, share and remain fair. Therefore, you need to show by example, lead by example and live by example. You need to analyse the Direction of the Rejection. Looking ahead helps you to do this. It enables you to be vigilant and alert of possibilities and impossibilities. Bullies are driven by their temperament, you simply cannot augment their moods. You need to do an Inspection. You may need some help here. Inspection is the Science of Examination. You are feeling Rejection and it hurts, it really does. As a meritocratic Goal Setter such a Rejection stalls your progress. Examination makes you understand that you need to let go. You need to let bygones be bygones. You need to exercise avoidance rather than pursuance. A bully at school can be used as a classic example. You know the direction of the bullying which is either in the corridors or in the playground. Once you found the direction you need to avoid the confrontation. This is where Inspection is required. Where is safe for me to be? You need to move to a safer zone and to be amongst other students rather than on your own. You need to flow rather than walk tiptoe, you need to show that you are not slow and neither are you a dynamo. You must always remember that you are here on planet Earth as a certified servant of our Heavenly Father. Such an understanding makes you live with confidence and filled with acceptance. Nothing will come in your way if you believe in yourself. This is what I call the psychological Protection. Finally, you need to apply the Act of Discreet Selection. To understand this, you need to understand that all human beings are deemed your friends. All human beings are swayed by their temperament. Therefore, you need to be on your guard. Avoid the bad mannered individuals, show kindness for the unemployed and the paranoid and understand the ones that are annoyed. The art of Selection enables you understand a variety of different problems in life that can cause inhibitions in your life. Dear friends, if you feel a sense of Rejection always apply the DIPS concept. It has worked effectively for me in the last 21 years. Soon I hope to run classes on the various concepts that I teach. I hope that you will find it invigorating.

Overcome Rejection with Injection

Overcome Rejection with Injection

Quote of the day

‘Feeling a sense of Rejection can be quite demoralising. To overcome such a denunciation, you need a CAP injection. A CAP injection is made up of equal portions of Correctional, Affectionate and Protective potions.’

Welcome to your weekend. The 1^st one of December and let’s hope it is going to be the one to remember. Sometimes in life we often feel a sense of rejection. Such a feeling can be quite demoralising. I know it so well because it is feeling that makes you stop, shudder and hold back on the tasks at hand. It is a feeling that reduces longevity, it is a feeling that increases your stress levels and it is a feeling that is quite embarrassing. Yesterday we spoke about longevity. We spoke about the passion and the desire to live onto 100 years of age. Such a period in time can be drastically reduced by the feeling of rejection. Today’s article is all about rejection. I hope that you are able to keep relevant articles in a portfolio of your own and to refer to them when trouble strikes. To date there are over 1700 articles and Quotes for your perusal and reference. They are there for your reference. Don’t forget to latch onto potent words too that I often speak about. Take charge of these words and also add them to your portfolio as well. The feeling of Rejection is a serious troubled zone and can slowly destroy anything that you spent years building. You must learn to overcome your Rejection with a CAP Injection. CAP injections are strong antidotes that get to work immediately. They work by cutting of the brashness of criticism, accusation, scolding, condemnation, negativity and denial. A CAP Injection is made up of three equal portions of Correctional, Affectionate and Protective stimulants. Correctional Injection is the process of taking a wrong and making it right. So, if you felt an intense feeling of rejection then ask yourself why. Why did it happened to you and what can you alter or rectify in order to put it right? An Affectionate Injection holds a strong potion of love. Love is ardour. Love infuses passion and desire in your life. Love is about living. It is about living your life to the fullest and loving it as well. Love makes you avoid issues rather than pursue them. So, if you feel rejected, correction will help you to rectify your mistake and love enables you to move on. The final potion is Protection. Protection makes you prepared for your unforeseen adversaries. It gives you the ability to evade rather than invade. It gives you the insight to anticipate and the foresight to get things right. Taking CAP injections works. They have the power to change the circumstances that you placed in. Have a wonderful weekend, you deserve it. Build on those golden goals to make 2016 your year for significant changes to your life. Let us call 2016 a year of acceptance rather than a year of rejection.  

Conserving, Observing and Preserving

‘Conserve, Observe and Preserve’

Quote of the day

‘Conserving is about protecting yourself and those close to you. To do this effectively you need to Observe. You need to observe everything from A-Z, both inanimate and animate objects. Observation leads to Preservation. Preservation is about maintaining and sustaining both inanimate and animate objects.’

To be successful in life you need to be part of life, a bustling program of daily activities from unicellular organisms to complex structures like you and me. It is hard to steer clear of adversities for these come in all shapes and sizes and without notification or invitation. I want to tell you today from an experienced individual that paced the Earth in various modes of transport, on foot and as a worker. I have seen how adversities differ like rivers that retreat into meanders of confusion and into waterfalls of illusions. I have seen the avarice of both man and woman and I have seen the wrath of both man and woman breaking the mould of people like you and me. I have faced them and in most cases came out the loser but as I stand here today writing an article of inspiration to you, I want to tell you quite frankly it is not bad being a loser because you are actually the achiever in the long run. What comes around again can be lived with a lot of regain and the constant desire to refrain from the talons of greed and anger. To achieve a similar feeling of moving forward I want to tell you about three words that will change your life for the common good. The first word is Conservation. Conservation is about protecting you from greed and anger. It is about learning from our mistakes and moving forward without making similar mistakes again. Protection is about Correction, Detection and Direction. You have to correct and live to detect. Now let me reinstate this vital sentence. You have been hurt before now you need to correct your mistakes. Detection makes you aware of the oncoming stream of anger and greed. Direction lets you steer away, stay away or standstill. It is all about Observation, which is the second word of our three potent words that make up the acronym of COP. Observation is about Detection. When you observe the oncoming stream of possibilities you begin to recognise rather than ignore. You are discovering new things each day, some good but mostly bad. This is the act of careful Observation. It is about exposing but certainly not opposing. Don’t oppose adversaries for you could spend the rest of your life living with the consequences of it. It is about exposing. Exposure is about composure. You need to remain calm. You need to be humane and always avoid rather than pursue. Once you get the knack of what I am saying you will see how the third word is so significant to the acronym COP. The third word is called Preservation. Preservation is about maintaining and sustaining standards unique to you but common to all. Preservation is about your personal defence to adversaries. Preservation is about looking after all objects both animate and inanimate. Now this last sentence is so relevant to your existence. You need to ask yourself can I survive alone in this world. The answer is inadvertently no. You need everyone and everything. Preservation is about caring for everyone and everything. Always remember to be like a COP and certainly to think like one. Conserve, Observe and Preserve.