Rejection

Rejection

Quote of the day

‘The feeling of rejection is probably the most negative response an individual could be subjected to. Rejection is sometimes life threatening and quite debilitating to an innocent victim.’

Application Quote

‘We are indeed human beings born to serve with all our heart and with all our strength. If a sense of rejection comes upon us in an unforeseen way, we need to implement the DIPS concept.’

The DIPS Concept suggests that you analyse the Direction of the Rejection and then follow on with an Inspection of the Rejection. Doing this forms, a psychological armour of Protection around you enabling you to implement an act of discreet Selection. Welcome to your weekend of private relaxation and rest. It is sadly the last weekend of August 2016 and a wonderful one too, may I add. Today, I want to talk about Rejection and how it can affect you in different situations.  All human beings have taken on the role of bullies and sadly the ‘Bully Syndrome’ does not stop at school. Bullies wear woollies to scare you, bullies create casualties, bullies exercise cruelties at all levels, bullies pick on people with disabilities, bullies have in-built hostilities within them, bullies create enemies, bullies disrupt friends and families, bullies can create fatalities, bullies can inflict undue injuries, bullies exist in all societies and bullies fills your mind with worries. If you are feeling a sense of Rejection you will find that a bully is behind it. A bully hides within a click and picks on you rather quick. I say onto you and verily too when you feel a sense of rejection at home, at work, at school or on the streets always adopt the DIPS concept. As a Universal Friend your goal in life is to care, share and remain fair. Therefore, you need to show by example, lead by example and live by example. You need to analyse the Direction of the Rejection. Looking ahead helps you to do this. It enables you to be vigilant and alert of possibilities and impossibilities. Bullies are driven by their temperament, you simply cannot augment their moods. You need to do an Inspection. You may need some help here. Inspection is the Science of Examination. You are feeling Rejection and it hurts, it really does. As a meritocratic Goal Setter such a Rejection stalls your progress. Examination makes you understand that you need to let go. You need to let bygones be bygones. You need to exercise avoidance rather than pursuance. A bully at school can be used as a classic example. You know the direction of the bullying which is either in the corridors or in the playground. Once you found the direction you need to avoid the confrontation. This is where Inspection is required. Where is safe for me to be? You need to move to a safer zone and to be amongst other students rather than on your own. You need to flow rather than walk tiptoe, you need to show that you are not slow and neither are you a dynamo. You must always remember that you are here on planet Earth as a certified servant of our Heavenly Father. Such an understanding makes you live with confidence and filled with acceptance. Nothing will come in your way if you believe in yourself. This is what I call the psychological Protection. Finally, you need to apply the Act of Discreet Selection. To understand this, you need to understand that all human beings are deemed your friends. All human beings are swayed by their temperament. Therefore, you need to be on your guard. Avoid the bad mannered individuals, show kindness for the unemployed and the paranoid and understand the ones that are annoyed. The art of Selection enables you understand a variety of different problems in life that can cause inhibitions in your life. Dear friends, if you feel a sense of Rejection always apply the DIPS concept. It has worked effectively for me in the last 21 years. Soon I hope to run classes on the various concepts that I teach. I hope that you will find it invigorating.

Reflections in July Create Affections in August

Reflections in July Create Affections in August

Quote of the day

‘Reflections in July are a collection of Quotes that deliver the SPICED effect which is Selection, Perfection, Introspection, Collection, Election and Direction. Being SPICED up in July creates Affections in August.’

A very, very blessed welcome to a blessed day, sadly the final one of July 2016. It is sad to say farewell to a good and wonderful month. To ease the emotions of farewell I would like you to reflect on those wonderful quotes that I wrote in July to create affections in August. What will make August a successful month for you will determine how you embrace tomorrow or how SPICED up you become. The SPICED Effect is made up of six power words and they are Selection, Perfection, Introspection, Collection, Election and Direction. I want you to select amongst 30 Quotes and Articles written by me in the month of July to create a mixture of motivation and a medley of Inspiration. Once your choice is finalised I want you to copy or print these collection of Quotes in a folder on your PC or create a physical folder. Your Selection must create a sense of Perfection. In August there are 31 days. You need to have the mind-set of excellence and flawlessness in all that you do, say or think. Choosing the right collection of quotes must stimulate you to think logically, speak responsibly and act symbolically. To help you choose the right collection of Quotes you need Introspection. Do a self-analysis today and establish which Quotes elevated your thoughts and feelings. It maybe just one Quote out of 30 or it may be all of them. If so, please arrange them in an order of preference. Once arranged you will have your Collection of Quotes at your fingertips. This will formulate your personal anthology. It will become your compendium of the millennium that will guarantee you a significant personal change in the next decennium. This collection should be personal. Don’t share it with anyone but use to make significant changes in your life for the next ten years. Once you see changes in your life then you can pass your skills onto someone else with confidence and provenance. The next 10 years of your life is an important milestone for the rest of your life on planet Earth. You can make it better by committing yourself in the form of a letter. This is a letter you need to write to yourself stating your choice. The Process of Electing the right Quotes in July must be a committed choice, a choice that comes from the bottom of your heart. This creates Direction for you from tomorrow until the 31st of July 2026. Direction is about having focus, targets and objectives. It is a road that you shall create spurred by your innermost feelings. With such a charted course nothing will go wrong. Your mind and body will be directed in a decennium of splendour and grandeur where accomplishment and fulfilment becomes a norm. Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls take pen to paper and make the next ten years of your life count. If you are at school this technique will guarantee you the best results academically and make you an achiever in your faculty of choice. If you are at work you will climb each rung of success with the zest to achieve unselfishly and to be the best selflessly. If you are ill, you will become well and lengthen your life if you take the right action and the inspired prescription. The LORD made the blind see, the lame walk and the dead come alive. The LORD will grant you wellness if you believe in yourself. If you are retired, you will have the best retirement that surpasses the limits of a pension pot. You will embrace life like never before. You will become a sage that opens a new page for those that are amongst you. You will leave behind a legacy of good deeds for others to be inspired by. Your exercise today is ‘Reflections in July Create Affections in August’. Your exercise tomorrow is to be SPICED up. Have a wonderful day.

The POP Effect

Things to do, things to undo

Quote of the day

‘Unravelling the mysteries of your life works in a simple way. You need to select the things you need to do, and then deselect the things that can be done later. To do something immediately invokes a steady process of Preparation, Organisation and Performance. I call this the POP! effect.

Welcome to your very 1^st weekend of June, the month of Selectivity. To help you along your journey to succeed we need to select and deselect. We need to select the things we have to do and then follow up by deselecting the things we need to undo or to do later on. June is deemed the month of Selectivity. To select things that you need to do helps if you use the POP effect. We all have umpteen things to do but find it quite difficult to prioritise them into immediate, medium or long term projects. Something that is not important often becomes important because we are constantly thinking about. If it is in your wish list by all means get on with it but if it can be done later it helps to focus on the more important ones. The POP effect helps you to do just that. The POP effect is about Preparing, Organising and Performing. Preparing for something is a lot easier when you prioritise. A wish list is about things to do over a period of time. A ‘whish’ list on the other needs to be done straight away. How do you differentiate between a wish list and a ‘whish’ list? It is simple, you select and you deselect and then apply the POP effect. Put your dreams into the category of whish or wish list. ‘Whish’ normally refers to top priority. Wish on the other hand refers to less priority work. To differentiate the two, you need to implement The POP Effect. If you are able to prepare and organise something in good time, then you can categorise this task as part of your ‘whish’ list. Preparing for something with ease and comfort means that you are ready to take on a task. This should be your priority. Preparing is about making a task doable. It is about meeting the workload of that task with confidence. Organising is about being systematic, arranging your task into suitable timeframes, putting them in order rather than putting the cart before the horse.  What follows after this is your performance. All meritocratic goal setters maintain a very high standard when it comes to performance. Anyone can perform a task but to do it with professionalism ensures that you are accomplished and fulfilled at the end of it. When you are struggling to perform a task then it is quite possible that you are not ready to undertake it. Help maybe needed or you simply need to deselect that task and tackle it later on. Always prioritise the tasks that you can do and improvise on the tasks that you cannot do. I wish you well in your 48 hours of sheer relaxation and rest. Do join me later on for Sunday’s article.

A month of adventure

A month of adventure

Quote of the day

‘June 2016 is deemed the month of Selectivity. It is an ideal time to select the perfect project and a time to reject the wrecked subject. It is also time to elect a new goal for Summer, a time to detect a defect in your agenda and a time to inspect the architect of your dreams. It is a time to correct the anomalies in your life and a time to protect the foundation of your hard work.’

White Rabbit! White Rabbit! White Rabbit! Welcome to the month of June 2016 as seen from the horizon of a new beginning in time. It is deemed the month of Selectivity. A time to select something new and something good and a time to reject something old and something bad. It is that time of the year to arrange the columns and rows in your life in a logical fashion and to enhance your psychological passion to make 2016 your year of personal success and personal change. It can be done. You just need to tweak the irregularities in your life with a stream of regularities. To do this you would need to select an irregularity in your life and cancel it with a regularity. A regularity could be the perfect project. An irregularity would definitely be an incomplete project. Don’t discard it just shelf it. A perfect project could be a joint venture or a mission to have a sound ambition such as a beautician, a magician, a technician, a musician, a mathematician, a politician, a paediatrician, an obstetrician or any profession that tickles your fancy. How about a new goal for Summer 2016? Do you need to lose weight, to be great or to go straight? Do you need a new teammate or to locate an old mate? June 2016 is certainly the month to press the select button. It is a time to replace old goals with new ones. Do you have a defect in your approach to succeed? Are you a procrastinator of written tasks and an accumulator of unfinished tasks? It is often better to do something later rather than be a hater of something that you couldn’t do. Hanging to something that you cannot possible start will often make you hate it, I say onto you and verily too, don’t procrastinate but concentrate. Concentration is about power developing and focus enhancement that makes you see your responsibilities and then undertake them. Concentration makes you develop the right will-power to get the job done and the precise brain-power to manage the job. Procrastination is about lengthening the wrong will-power to avoid getting the job done and negating your brain power to mismanage the job. June 2016 is the month to inspect the architect of your dreams and to establish if your foundation is strong and your realisation is even stronger. It is a time to be real rather than surreal. It is a time to feel your dreams rather than conceal them. It is time to select what is good for you and to reject with immediate effect what is bad for you. I will be here for the next 30 days to help you reach your destiny with triumph. Have a wonderful midweek and a wonderful month.

It’s time to SPICE up your life

It’s time to SPICE up your life

Quote of the day

‘It is an appropriate time to SPICE up your life. Using the Laws of the Universe you can Select, Perfect, Inspect, Correct and Establish your future in an orderly fashion, just like The Universe. What becomes of tomorrow lies entirely on how you SPICE up today.’

Welcome to the conclusion of another working week. I hope and pray that you had an accomplished and fulfilling working week. Such a feat makes next week even more challenging. For all your hard work and sheer determination, you will always be rewarded. Your reward is a fun packed weekend where you are in charge of your 48 hours and with the private privilege of recharging your cells. Did you enjoy the last three articles about The Laws of the Universe? There are more articles in this series to help inspire and motivate you to achieve Success. From the first three Laws of the Universe we can learn how to SPICE up our lives to create a better tomorrow and a stronger future for ourselves. This is an important criterion to establish in creating Success Stories. A strong foundation is the formation to everlasting admiration. Always remember that. Bonus Quote: ‘A strong foundation is the formation to everlasting admiration.’ Selecting the right vocation or the right vacation makes all the difference. From the Laws of the Universe we can see that our life has a purpose. Therefore, our objective is to be happy in what we do. You should never compel yourself to do something that makes you unhappiness. The Universe is an orderly structure and in order for you to be happy you need to be orderly. Selecting the right vocation or vacation helps. You then need to Perfect your vocation or vacation. The Universe is old and has been perfect for almost 14 billion years. It holds our history of good and wrong. In other to achieve a better appraisal we need to Inspect our daily agenda. We need to scrutinise every second of our activities and what appears wrong must be put right and what appears right must be 100%% right. Inspection leads to Correction. Correction is about making amends to previous errors. It is the academy of righteousness. A human Being has the power to put things right. What is wrong can clearly be seen from a distance. If you looked into the horizon and noticed that the Sun rose in the West, you will know and feel something is not right. The Universe performs its daily tasks accurately and valiantly. There is no room for errors. Likewise, to achieve order in your domain you need to constantly correct your errors. Finally, in order to SPICE up your life you need Establishment. Establishment is The Creation of you. GOD created The Heavens and The Earths, an establishment that is long organised and orderly. You don’t have to take my word for it, just look into the vastness of space and time and you will see organization and order like never before. To become established like The Universe you need to SPICE up your life. I am here to help, to inspire, to motivate and to hold your hand to success. You are here to help others too once you feel established, orderly and organized. This is the humane and approved way to succeed and help others to succeed equally. This comes from the 1st law of The Universe which states that all human beings are fundamentally the same. Thank you for finding the time to be inspired. It goes to show quite clearly that you are here to validate your purpose in life. My purpose in life is to love it, to love everything about life, to love the inhabitants of our world, to love every citizen of our world and to love our Heavenly Father. Do have a wonderful weekend. Don’t forget to join later on for more Laws of the Universe to help you to become happy and successful.

The life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter

The life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter

Quote of the day

‘The Life of a Meritocratic Goal Setter is always focussed on getting the job done with perfection, affection, direction and selection, a strategy I call PADS. Keeping your PADS on will always ensure a successful day let alone a successful life.’

Have you got your PADS on, a meritocratic Goal Setters always keeps their PADS on. They believe in Perfection, Affection, Direction and Selection. Meritocratic Goal Setters are Perfectionists. They seek accomplishment and fulfilment on a grand scale. They aim for a faultless display of accolades achieved in the best possible way and in the most unselfish way. They have Direction in what they do from dawn to dusk and from dusk to dawn. They plan before they take action. They map their charter with precision identifying each aspect of their daily agenda with great management and control. They believe in affection. They are friendly to the core, generous to restore and loving to adore. They have a broad range of interests, an assortment of hobbies, a range of talents and a variety of achievements. They certainly have a noted selection to be proud of. Dear Friends you could do the same. If your life is perplexed with worries, debts, illness, sadness, bereavement or confusion, fear not for all of these anomalies can soon disappear? Like an ailment there is always a prescription at hand. The world is your oyster and the pearl is your treasure you just need the courage to accept it. So, when doubt sets in or trouble stands at your front door consolidate your life into something more purposeful by becoming a meritocratic goal setter. A meritocratic goal setter has no trace of doubt in their heart for they place reliance on Almighty GOD. They keep their PADS on at all times and meet their day with courage and determination. They have faith in their abilities and capabilities and never lose hope when it matters most. They start their day in prayer and end it with gratitude. They carry their TAG with them at ALL times. (TAG stands for Trust Almighty GOD). They open the windows of their lives each day and inhale the warmth of living it. They believe in keeping fit, fecund and safe. They are active both mentally and physically. They mingle in company that encourages them and avoid company that discourages them.

SED Day

SED Day

Quote of the day

‘Welcome to SED Day here in the UK. It is time to create your Selection, then make an Election and finally determine which Direction you will head in the next 5 years.’

I call today SED Day or Sedimentation Day because we are like particles travelling in time, in this instance five years and depending who comes into power will lay us to rest either still in debt, unemployed, ill or stranded in the usual way. The rich will get richer and poorer will remain poor. However I believe you can change this dramatically by making your own Selection, Election and Direction. Today I want you to select exactly what you would like to do in the next five years. Write it down, don’t be afraid. It is a pact between you and Almighty GOD. GOD can see how determined you are. GOD knows your needs. Now elect the one out of the many things that you wrote down as your priority selections in life. This is now your direction, to take five years and transform the kaleidoscope of your career into magic and colour. It will work for you no matter what you chose to do because you are placing reliance on yourself and in GOD and not in man that is capable of letting you down in an instance. I must stress that you are responsible for your life and therefore you need to place reliance on your own merits and the support of our Heavenly Father rather than in man who will always let you down. Start today by making the right selection for you and then power this manoeuvre with an election placing a big X onto the most appealing change you would like to make in the next five years. Wake up tomorrow and head in the right direction to accomplish and fulfil your goal. Every second that passes you from day 1 must be invested in your goals. You must work diligently on your goals. You must constantly think of them because you are in control. Don’t forget use SED day to get started. S for Selection, E for Election and D for Direction!