Want or Need

Want or Need

Quote of the day

‘There is a distinct difference between a WANT and a NEED, knowing the difference can make all the difference. Not knowing the difference can ultimately result in happiness or sadness.

Dear Friends, it is important to distinguish between a WANT and a NEED. This distinction can make an overall difference to your life. Your life is indeed a precious gift and is equated with time. Each second that you waste over the duration of your life can result in either the lessening of your lifespan or living in remorse. To have the good things in life requires a certain degree of input on your part. However finding the right things in life bespoke to your very NEEDS can be quite a daunting task. We often emulate what we see but do not necessarily step into the right shoes. Temptation is also a menacing attraction that lures you to your demise (The use of the word demise in this instance refers to your downfall). A WANT can best described as a wish or yearn but does necessarily indicate that you really want it. You are constantly seeing things in front of you like a sequence on a celluloid film. Advertising is designed to do just that. Your quest in life is to live by request. In other words if you NEED something pertinent to your requirements you NEED to request for information on that product, service or advice. You NEED to scan through the information, test drive them if you have to or simply reject. You are the decision maker. A NEED forms the essential part of your requisite. I need the essentials commodities in life to survive. I need money to meet my expenses. I need to learn a trade or I need to pass my driving test. Live by request, gain some testimonials and look for the shoe that fits. Don’t rush into things, don’t allow the WANTS in your life to ruin happier moments. Life is about Happiness and Joy, this is a daily process and lasts for 100 years. What is the purpose of living if you are saddle strapped to the common fallacies in life? Make a good decision and stick to it. However you must remember that good decisions do take time. If you need something search for it. Once you have found it then do your research. The art of researching often yields three results. The first result makes it a NEED. The second result makes you understand that it is a WANT. The third result is somewhat obscure, it is either a yes or a no. Stick to the first result at all times. If there is a doubt just leave it or reject it. You not compelled to say yes without thinking about it first. Always say no to temptation.

Did you do the right thing?

Did you do the right thing?

Quote of the day

‘Nothing will go wrong if you did things right. This is the mentality of a meritocratic Goal Setter. They know that they got to get it right with all their might. They do not spite, fright, incite or live in contrite.’

Do you feel remorse when you did something? Do you feel a sense of guilt over something that you might have said or done? These feelings are quite common especially when you lack confidence in your abilities. People always judge you for the mistakes that you make but find it very hard to commend you for the good that you do. It is very hard indeed to function when you are been constantly critiqued for the common errs that you make over the years in your life. I always maintain that nothing will go wrong if you do things right in the first place. However what is the difference between right and wrong. Something that is right is always something that is righteous and honourable. A righteous deed is always shrouded with goodness. It is an unselfish act performed with love and dignity. A meritocratic Goal Setter will never seek commendation or applause when performing good deeds. They just have the mind-set to do well. They know the meaning of right and they work diligently to ensure all their tasks for the day is performed with honesty, integrity and trust. Look back over the last 5 minutes and see whether you did the right thing. If so, was it performed with honesty, integrity and trust? If your answer is no, don’t worry there is no need to panic. You do not have to live in fright over the performance of your last task. You do not have to spite someone for critiquing you. You don’t have to incite trouble because trouble just wastes more time. Doing right will never make you feel any sense of contrite. Dear Friends, you must believe in yourself and have the confidence in speaking rather than shrieking. You must have the confidence to think of what you are capable of doing rather than assuming what you cannot do. This always leads to the wrong end result. If you feel strongly about something then do it or say it. Believe in yourself. If you feel that you did wrong then apply the 3 RRRs formula. Review what you think that you did wrong. Revise your tactics and then Redo it or Resay it. It is as simple as ABC. It is a matter of getting into the right mind-set to make the right decisions and of course at the right time. Do it right and nothing will go wrong?

‘There is no need to dismay in May 2015.’

‘There is no need to dismay in May 2015.’

Quote of the day

‘The livery of your day is made up of your intentions to create a successful day. Dress in the attire of success and you shall be successful. Wear the insignia of triumph and you shall walk the streets triumphantly.’

Dear Friends, it is easy for someone to tell you to be positive when it is hard to ignore the huge debts you face, the problems that you encounter domestically or at work and the possibility of becoming ill with either a chronic or acute ailment. What happens if a car stalls and refuses to start again? Would you discard it and get another one or would you seek expert advice and rectify or remedy the situation? It is your decision, what will you do? Problems will always come your way like the wind in Summer, drought in Winter, snow in the southern hemisphere or tornadoes in the desert. Life is full of surprises because we have become poor custodians of the living world. Our Heavenly Father has given us the sole responsibility to look after our planet but we instead look after our pockets, filling it with greed, exceeding our needs, misleading the masses and conceding to temptation. Just by changing the permutation to our day, altering it in small amounts can make a vast difference to our entire lives. You got to get up and wear the attire that fits your needs. You have to become saddled to the right horse and gallop into the foothills of knowledge each day with the zest to become wise, matured and successful. You cannot wear the wrong shoes for the wrong occasion. You have to step into the right shoes with the right attitude day in and day out. You have to walk along your daily route with a planned agenda, paving the way for others to follow and clearing the way for others to pass. To overcome hefty debts you need to divide them down into smaller amounts and slowly reduce them over a period of time. Always add to your piggy bank rather than break the bank. If you feel ill, then decide whether you need the prescribed pill to assist you in your recovery. If you have a huge bill than don’t stand still but create the will to reduce it or eliminate it. Don’t live in remorse, go to the source of your trouble on the double and create a new course of action. Don’t live in remorse for another month and carry your troubles into June. You are just digging a deeper rut to crawl into. Live with the anticipation to succeed. Success will always come your way if you dress in the right attire to receive it.