A Strange way is often the best way to change your day

‘A Strange way is often the best way to change your day’

Quote of the day

‘Strangeness is about something abnormal to your normal routine. Strangeness changes the concept of current affairs and turns them into concurrent affairs.’

For someone to constantly say that you will never lose weight or become debt free makes you eventually accept that you shall be overweight and in debt for the rest of your life. Sometimes we maybe a borderline case where our weight fluctuates a few kilos over our prime weight. Sometimes we may be living on the edge, earning just enough to get by. Our income just about meets our expenses. As the years go by we epitomise this melody of living on the edge. We accept it as normal and assume that riches are for the rich. A normal lifestyle is actually characterised by elegance and is designed for all and not for one. Elegance is a very fitting word to describe the lifestyle of any human being. Elegance is about sophistication, grace and class. Sophistication is about acquiring a wealth of knowledge in a broad category. Grace is about your poise, beauty and refinement. Class is about your flair broaden by your sophistication and grace. When you realise that you need to be elegant you will immediately see or feel something strange. You will have that inner stimulus triggered possibly by my inspirational values and concepts to make a change from you’re so called normal life to an abnormal life. This abnormal life is actually a normal lifestyle that people do not want you to enter into. Selfish people want these categories of elegance for themselves and make you believe that you will always be want you are. You need to shift this mentality of a so called normal life to an abnormal life by making your life epitomised with elegance. When you steer your craft into a physical and mental change the appearances of this change will be strange. Your body adapts to this change. Your mind soon accepts this change. Your current affairs is altered and shifted into a rhapsody of concurrent affairs. You suddenly choose to walk rather than travel by car, you read more and learn new words. Your body moves in harmony with this change and fat is neutralised into muscle power. You feel that you are drifting into an abnormal state when you are actually veering into a normal mode. People have forced you into the previous state, now you have shifted this concept and remained elegant for the rest of your entire life. This is why I called this article ‘A Strange way is often the best way to change your day’ because the experiences you undergo during change is in fact unusually strange, so strange that you cannot believe it is happening to you. It is like a lottery win. People just cannot believe that it is happening to them. They cannot believe that they have entered an elegant world filled with poise and grace. You need to believe in yourself to know that you don’t have to win a lottery to make changes in your life. You just need to believe in yourself and discover what your needs really are.

Stronger Foundations always yield better Determinations

‘Stronger Foundations always yield better Determinations’

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‘Having a better grasp of the fundamentals of your existence enables you to move forward gallantly in achieving your goals. Stronger foundations makes you understand the purpose of your life, the unequivocal love for your wife and the rife of opportunities that is bestowed upon.’

Having a strong foundation with the fundamental core ingredients sets you free to achieve your unselfish goals. A strong foundation consists of a strong PACK. PACK stands for Prayers, Affirmation, Consistency and Knowledge. Mix these core ingredients together and you shall form the basis for anything to stand firmly on your shoulders such as health, wealth and prosperity. Building materials behave in a similar fashion, mix the key ingredients in the right proportions and you could make the tallest skyscraper stand still or the simplest wall stand erect. Concrete has to be mixed in the right proportions to set solid in the drenches below. Sand, gravel, cement and water has to be mixed in the right proportions for manmade creations to hold a place in history. Now it is your turn, it is your turn to make a hallmark in history. It is time to make your name known to the world that walks past you. To do this you need a sturdy PACK. Prayers is your first protocol. It starts in the morning at a time convenient for you and ends gracefully when you retire. Praying daily and praying sincerely takes you up the next rung in your sturdy PACK and that is Affirmation. Affirmation is your confirmation that GOD does exist and so do you. Affirmation is your support base from Almighty GOD. GOD holds your hand when you walk alone. GOD gives you opportunities when the doors are closed by man. GOD gives you wisdom when you are unsure. GOD loves you when you find no love from others. GOD is good and so are you. Consistency is your personal effort which differs from individual to individual. Consistency ensures steadiness in your path to righteousness. Consistency creates uniformity in your judgements. Finally we receive Knowledge when we need it most. Eternal Knowledge is infinite. Eternal knowledge in often internal, within you. Knowledge sparks awareness and clear doubt. Knowledge is about understanding basics molecules to complex supernovas. Knowledge becomes expertise but realisation supersedes this. Eternal knowledge is an infinite array of data ready to be browsed on a daily basis to aid you when the need arises. Are you ready to carry a sturdy PACK?  Do you understand about life? Do you understand the presence of your wife? Do you believe in opportunities? If you do then opportunities will always be rife? Are determined are you going to be from reading this article? How determined are you to make changes in your life?

Drive your intent like a car and watch how content you will be by far

‘Drive your intent like a car and watch how content you will be by far.’

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‘Steer clear from the edge, manoeuvre pass the hedge, avoid the low bridge, gently cruise over the ridge, brake in good time, accelerate in appropriate times, keep a clear distance in front of you and seek assistance if you stall. Drive your day like this and you shall reach your destination safely.’

A Good intention always renders a better attention. Bad intentions on the other hand always renders poor dissensions. Let us examine this a little more carefully. If your intent is shrouded in good deeds and better values you will always experience a better day or receive bundles of attention. It is quite simple, what you give is what you shall receive. Give kindness and you shall get compassion. Give courtesy and you shall be rewarded with politeness. Be helpful and you shall receive full support from the angels to families and friends. Be thoughtful and you shall receive pensiveness. Therefore if your intent is shrouded with kindness, courtesy, helpfulness and thoughtfulness the rest of your day will be content, period. With a good intent you will always be content.  In theory this is always true, in practice it isn’t. To make it true you need to become the driver of your intent. You need to drive like a driver that steers his or her vehicle away from possible danger by confining themselves within the Highway Code. You need to steer clear from adversaries that come in all shapes and sizes. Yesterday we spoke about slowing down, I say keep within your speed limit of abilities and capabilities. Don’t take on a task that you know you cannot complete. Manoeuvre your intentions away from gossip, procrastination and negativity. Avoid making promises and exercise good deeds wherever possible. Brake when you need a break and accelerate when you feel the vibrancy to do so. Keep a clear distance from trouble ahead by being watchful and keenly observant. Ask for assistance when you stall, the answer may be simple as simplicity is always the bridge that divides straightforwardness from difficulties. Your body is likened to a car, so look after it. Don’t leave certain areas untouched and focus on areas that are visible. Eat well with good grains of food, eat limitless amounts of the good foods and eat limited amounts of the bad foods. Look after your mind, the powerhouse of your decisions. Gain sleep rather than loose it. Don’t count sheep before you go to bed, just slumber without thinking of any numbers. Think peacefulness and yours dreams will merit an accord of serenity, tranquillity and placidity. Do this for yourself in exactly the way I prescribed and watch how you shall awaken to a new day all fresh and sound.

Go Slow in Snow

Go Slow in Snow

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‘The real key to your overall success is to go slow. In snow we need to go slow. Where there is danger we need to remain low. Where there is sadness we need to let go, slowly. Everything that becomes successful is always slow. We grow slowly, we need to flow slowly and we need to show slowly.’

Dear Friends don’t haste in anything that you plan to do. Haste leads to waste. Every second of your time is valuable. To maximise the use of your time you need to slow down. You need to go slow in snow. You need to remain low when danger lurks. Where there is sadness you need to slowly let go. In order to become successful you need to be slow and gentle, managing your time in careful segments. Each segment of your daily agenda calibrates your day. To ensure that your agenda is fulfilled and accomplished you need to exercise a simple routine. You need to have a vision, then exercise some revision, then make a decision and execute it with precision. If done in this sequence slowly you are guaranteed that your daily agenda will be accomplished and fulfilled. Many people make entries into their agenda without having a vision, followed by a revision, then a decision and finally executing it with precision. As a result agendas become unfulfilled and unaccomplished. In fact people are put off from following a rigid agenda. They procrastinate, they can’t get going and finally do things unprofessionally. They rush rather than do things slowly at a gentle and relaxed pace. Let us explore this together in greater detail. Let us assume that part of your agenda for tomorrow was to go to a Restaurant for a meal with your family. In your agenda you plan to eat at 7PM. You start off with a vision. The vision could be about the cuisine and the type of cuisine. This vision helps you develop a palate and depending on who you decide to take, you do a revision of where you would like to go. A revision could include value for money, locality, venue, offers, music, drinks, reviews etc. Now it is time for a decision. Can you make a decision to go for a meal with your spouse or family or even friends? Did the revision help? Sometimes when we don’t revise decision making becomes hard. You could be surrounded by a string of restaurants and waste time trying to find a suitable place to eat. Having a vision of what you want to do followed by a revision really helps you make the right decision. Once a decision is made you can then execute your evening out with extreme precision. Everything in life is a learning curve. It is a slow process and the management of your time is crucial. If your agenda states that you will go out for a meal tomorrow at 7PM, with a proper vision, revision, decision and finally precision you WILL go out. This is applicable to any task that you list on your agenda. Don’t make entries into your agenda without having a vision, without doing a revision, without making a decision and without performing it with precision. Remember go slow in snow, go slow in everything that you do. Don’t rush or fuss

A Second Chance

‘A second Chance’

Quote of the day

‘Getting a second chance is far better than having a first chance. At least you know that nothing will change until you changed it, nothing will be loved until you loved it and nothing will be satisfactory unless you followed a gentle pace with elegant grace.’

Every day is a new beginning. When the elegant Sun rises it actually opens a new opportunity for you. So, if those New Year’s Resolutions did not work out as planned don’t feel disheartened. Don’t feel that you have to wait until the 1st of January 2016 to start all over again. I say onto you and verily too that tomorrow can be a new beginning for you, or today for that matter. What has passed cannot be amended or altered to suit your ego. However what is about to pass you can be amended or altered to suit your ego? Your ego is your personality or your character that you have created over the years. A negative personality is something that you have created even though others have inhibited you. It is like your apparel. What you wear or want you to wear is your choice. Therefore how you look is based on what you choose to wear. Having a second chance is far better than having a first chance. At least you know that nothing will change until you changed it, nothing will be loved until you loved it and nothing will be satisfactory unless you followed a gentle pace with an elegant grace. You need to initiate change in order to see change. You need to move objects in order for change to occur. A dead plant will look barren and dead until you uproot it and discard it into the fiery furnace. This is the second chance I am referring to. This is the start of a new beginning for you. This is where you decide what you want to wear, how you groom your hair, what you eat, what you think, what you move and what you ultimately would like to change. We spoke about Newton’s Laws of Motion and we spoke about objects that are stationary. These objects will always remain stationary until you take the first step or action. What did you leave unresolved over the past 31 days? Did everything you write down remains the same? Do you feel that you will never achieve those long lost dreams? You need to recruit, you need to start, you need to introduce and you need to open. You need to recruit the services of someone to help you, a mentor like me perhaps. You need to start right away but tomorrow should be okay. You need to introduce new habits such as proper eating and regular exercise. Other habits could be politeness, reading, contemplation and a hobby such as gardening. You need to open new doors of opportunities and close failed doors of opportunities. It is all about change. It is all about regulating your personality to some degree of normality and rationality. It is never too late. It is never too late for anything. Start today, start tomorrow, start when you are ready but start and stop procrastinating.

From a Dreary February to a Cheery February

‘From a Dreary February to a Cheery February’

Quote of the day

‘Exposure is what you need, like an unveiling of a butterfly from its cocoon. Exposure is coverage for you in a spotlight of magnificence and in a limelight of sheer brilliance.’

White Rabbit! White Rabbit! White Rabbit!  Welcome to the beginning of a new month and welcome to a new beginning for you. Like polarisation where the opposing schisms are on either side of each other like a magnet or an atom or a coin or a sudden temperament I want you to shift any signs of dreariness that you may have to an open field of absolute cheeriness. All things in life have an opposition. A magnet will oppose a like pole, two electrons will repel each other, governments will be challenged by the Opposition Party and as for us goodness will always be clouded with badness. Today I want you to polarise your possible dreariness that you may have and shift it to a more cheeriness feeling. Dreariness will always hold an aura of monotony, boredom and misery to your day and ultimately to your entire life. Cheeriness on the other hand changes this negative setback in your life. Cheeriness creates merriness, chirpiness, happiness and joyfulness. How can you possibly settle for anything less. To gain maximum exposure in your life you need to be immersed genuinely in cheeriness. People recognise this and take full cognisance of your presence and your value. You cannot become successful if you have hostility in your heart. Hostility leads to irresponsibility and volatility. Hanging on to anger, tempers, bad feelings and grudges makes you less cheerful. In fact it makes you dreary. In February I want you to make you polarise your thoughts and shift them to a land of happiness and comfort. Landing on a cushion that is comfortable will always make you bounce back. Have you ever witnessed a butterfly emerging from its cocoon? This is the feeling you need to aim for. You need to be like the butterfly that flies away into the vastness of life and into the colour of the floral attractions. This is the spotlight of magnificence and a limelight of sheer brilliance that I want you to be drenched in as you embark on 28 days of glamourous work in February. You need to be excited about your life and about your work and about your dreams and your goals. You need to be cheery and not dreary. You need to have beauty and you need to be desirable. You need to create fascination and give back equal amounts of fascination. I shall guide you along a 28 day journey to achieve just that.

Goodbye January 2015

Goodbye January 2015

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‘Farewell to January must be a valediction of your innermost feelings. It is not just goodbye but also thank you for the enlightenment that January provided in either hemispheres of planet Earth. Now we must move on with similar feelings in February, to change and to conquer.’

Thank you January for the constant enlightenment that you have provided for me. I see a radical change in my life and in my future because I took action at the end of last year. I took calculated goals and turned them into more controlled roles and commenced on the 1st of January 2015 with an energised feeling like never before. 31 days in January was enough to set me on a 365 day journey with joy and profound happiness. This is the way to go. This is the way I want you to go. This is the craft of your intent that you need to board onto every day. Did not start as yet? No worries. I am here to help, to nurture and inspire. I am here for you as I have always been. You need to make a significant twist to your life by making it more joyful and radiant rather than tedious and monotonous. I say farewell to January with an emotional tear. January has provided me with 2 million six hundred and sixty six thousand of twinkling seconds. It is has given me the boost like fuel to a rocket to propel me into the valley of my dreams. I am here now floating amongst my possible achievements. I know that I cannot do it overnight. I have time by my side. I have you as my friends. I have the world as my platform to execute all my duties for the day. What more can I possibly ask for? What more do you need to change or twist your life around? Dear Friends let us hold hands together in February and keep the momentum strong to build a better platform to live on. Thank you once again January for everything. Thank you to my new friends on social media, thank you to my old friends that kept me writing inspirational content on a daily basis. Thank you to Almighty GOD for allowing me access to the Heavenly Extranet for daily inspiration and for the constant desire to enlighten my friends. Thank you – January 2015, you have certainly set me in motion. I shall change and conquer like never before because I know that I have you.