The DIAL Syndrome

The DIAL Syndrome

Quote of the day

‘Dialling the wrong number will always make you Discriminate, Intimidate, Aggravate or Legislate. These facets of life are just time wasters. Always DIAL the right number that makes you feel Determined, Inspired, Aspired or Liberated.’

Bonus Quote

‘Always DIAL to make you smile, to go the extra mile, to develop a better profile and show elegant style.’

Welcome to your weekend, a period of 48 hours packed with fun, relaxation and joy. Never underestimate the benefits of your weekend. Enjoyed it, enjoy every second of it. Use it to revive your ambitions and use it to drive your goals to the next level. Sometimes during our weekends, we do tend to get side-tracked when the phone rings. Communication is good and communication can sometimes become bad. This is due to the DIAL Syndrome. Many of us are often deterred from answering our phone because we often end up with the DIAL Syndrome. The DIAL Syndrome works both ways. It could be a hoax call which can leave you feeling Discriminated, Intimidated, Aggravated or Legislated. It could also be a coax call which can leave you feeling Determined, Inspired, Aspired or Liberated. Communication is important but communication can also be a narration of poor translation. Telesales often leaves you feeling Discriminated, Intimidated, Aggravated or Legislated. They want to sell but repel you with their usual dispel. Communication is important because we need to talk rather than block, we need to understand rather than misunderstand. So when you DIAL always aim to make someone smile. You need to understand their feeling as well as your own. You need to go the extra mile to make the right conversation. Your narration must be applauded with a standing ovation. This helps to develop your profile and create a style that makes people want to talk with you. Be honest, be earnest, be the greatest, be the coolest, be modest, be the truest, be the simplest and always be the gentlest. Don’t DIAL to make someone to feel Discriminated, Intimidated, Aggravated or Legislated. Create friends, don’t create enemies. Don’t let someone slam the phone on you. Always remember the DIAL Syndrome. It works both ways.  Can you imagine slamming the phone down to someone that hurt you. Recall the last phone call that made you feel Discriminated, Intimidated, Aggravated or Legislated.  Discrimination is about mistreating another human being by forcing them into some form of treaty or contract. You simply don’t want this on you weekends. Intimidation is where a failed sales pitch turns to pressure and bullying. Most people surrender to this and take on the burden of something that they did not really need. Aggravation makes either party slam the phone down. This changes your mood swings and alters the happiness of your weekend. Legislation is about people creating their own rules and regulations such as mobile phone contracts, do you really need this. It is good to abide by the law but it is not good to accept rules and regulations that Companies impose on you. Ask them kindly to change their rules and regulations and they will say no. When dialling or answering the phone always remember the DIAL syndrome. I wish you a wonderful weekend free from harassing phone-calls.

‘Discrimination vs Differentiation’

‘Discrimination vs Differentiation’

Quote of the day

‘It is painful to discriminate but helpful to differentiate.’

Discrimination is a weakening tool used by all human beings to incite prejudice, unfairness, bigotry and inequality. Our eyes creates the perfect snapshot to initiate discrimination and from our sightings we often resort to fighting, smiting, arguing, disagreeing, lusting, separating, competing or constant challenging. Our success in life is dependent on other people, without whom we cannot exist in a vast planet teeming with opulence and opportunities. Colonisation has created rifts between so many people. New terminologies have been created from the birth of colonisation such as class, segregation and denigration. I say onto you and verily too make friends and not enemies. Don’t discriminate but learn to differentiate. Differentiation is a powerful tool that can be used by human beings the world over to enhance their lifestyles and to promote friendship and love. Differentiation identifies differences between people. You can tell the young from the old, males from females, children from toddlers, students from pupils, the rich from the poor, the infirm from the strong, the weak and the meek, the workers from the retired ones, the sick from the healthy, the unemployed from the employed, the homeless from the sheltered, the refugees from the natives and so on. Learn to discriminate and you topple the balance of your sanity. You get aggressive, angry, bereaved, belittled, unfriendly, sad, discourteous, arrogant and discerning. Learn to differentiate and you start to see life in a different perspective. Differentiation makes you polarise different situations in life. You polarise sadness into happiness, hunger into surfeit, poverty into wealth, sickness into good health, and sufferings into joy and abuse into protection. Don’t judge another human being or grudge them either. Don’t heckle someone but show them speckles of joy and happiness instead. If you see someone today don’t discriminate them but differentiate them instead. If they are young seek to show them by example etiquette, patience and understanding. If they are infirm confirm to them openly that you would like to help even if it is just to walk them across the street. If they are beautiful acknowledge their beauty with love rather than lust. If they are rich become inspired to be as rich as them rather than be jealous of them from the core of your intentions. If they are homeless lend a helping hand, give them something to encourage them to be appreciated. Don’t follow the trial of discrimination that has left the whole world with lost souls and bitterness from above the equator to down under. Follow the trial that is righteous from the start to the very end. Please always carry this motto, ‘it is painful to discriminate but helpful to differentiate.’

‘Don’t discriminate, don’t incriminate and don’t intimidate’

Quote of the day

‘Take heed of your fellowmen or women who may well be in need. Don’t discriminate them for their creed or their breed. Don’t incriminate them for their greed and don’t intimidate them if they cede.’

You cannot walk the furlong and long for the fur with discrimination, incrimination and intimidation in your heart. You need to love what you do, you need to love the people that exist equally in our world, you need to love your family and your friends, you need to love the punters, you need to love the hunters, you need to love our Heavenly Father and you need to love yourself. You cannot judge someone else for their ethnicity, colour, culture or creed. Don’t judge or misjudge. Don’t hate or rate even if it is your old mate. Don’t have hostility in your heart, volatility in your mind and irresponsibility in your actions. Don’t bully, don’t be woolly and don’t be silly. Don’t laugh at someone, don’t gossip about them either. Don’t pity the disable for they have an equal right to live from city to city. Don’t mock another human being, don’t shock them with your vile, don’t stalk them either and don’t hawk them neither here or there. Life is about living it and not giving it away. Everyone has a life and this is the most important thing to remember. You cannot discriminate another human being for their creed or their breed. A person’s creed is his or her chosen faith. It is personal and we should respect it. People come in all shapes and sizes, in all colours and disguises and in various walks of life. As much as we want to be successful we must respect their need to be equally successful. We need to embrace rather than disgrace. We need to be patient rather than the patient. We need to learn to be good, we also need to yearn for the good and we should show concern for the good or the bad. We need to desire friendship rather than require it. To desire is to cherish a long relationship with someone. Dear Friends I urge you to stop discriminating, incriminating and intimidating. This is your third ground rule to follow before implementing your instructions.