Weekend Essentials

Weekend Essentials

Quote of the day

‘It is important to fortify your strengths rather than amplify your weaknesses. It is equally important to keep constantly active at any age level rather than inactive.’

Welcome to your very special weekend. The 1^st weekend following the long Bank weekend of last week. It is a marvellous day today with a summer like temperature with bluish skies reflecting on a greenish earth. You give me the courage to write and you encourage me to think. Despite my heavy schedule I always think of you each day, hence my daily input into your inspirational world. It is great to have you on board. Thank once again for your sincere appreciation for my inspirational content. Today I want to talk about weekend essentials. I call it weekend essentials because these are essential things that one needs to do to build their resistance.

• Weekend Essential No. 1 – Always be strong rather than weak. Always believe in yourself rather than disbelieve in your abilities.
• Weekend Essential No. 2 – Always search for ways of fortifying your strengths rather than amplifying your weaknesses.
• Weekend Essential No. 3 – Always be determined to eat foods in their natural form rather than foods that are unnatural.
• Weekend Essential No. 4 – Always have the genuine intention to participate, contemplate and educate in any given situation.
• Weekend Essential No. 5 – Always find the time to teach essentials skills to your children to create those much needed thrills in their lives.
• Weekend Essential No. 6 – Always follow a set of instructions that has previously worked rather than stick to false deductions that don’t work.
• Weekend Essential No. 7 – Always have it in your heart to assist others, to persist in your goals and to resist temptation.
• Weekend Essential No. 8 – Always find the time each day to keep active rather than inactive irrespective of how old you really are.
• Weekend Essential No. 9 – Always be patient in any given situation rather than become a patient as a result of the situation.
• Weekend Essential No. 10 – Always be contented with what you have rather than what you do not have.

Dear Friends, latch onto these key weekend essentials and see the difference in your life with immediate effect. Have a wonderful, relaxing and restful weekend. It is your time, so make the most of it.

The Composite Link

The Composite Link

Quote of the day

‘Every chain is the same made up of links that combine to form either a torus or roller chain. Like chains your life is made up of similar links. Each link can be likened to a goal. If one link in the chain is weak it weakens the entire structure. Likewise, if one of your goals is weak it will affect your entire life.’

A very warm greeting to all of you on this Thursday, the 4^th of February 2016. It is warm for the time of year in good old London Town. Nevertheless, we need to constantly persevere in the cold weather or in the hot weather. We are human beings with the appendages to adapt. Yesterday, my article called Destinations, London was intended to stimulate you to find a holiday destination for 2016. It does not have to be London but my intentions were purely to stimulate and strengthen your goals. Each goal in your life is a like a link that amalgamates with the next goal in your life. Whatever your goals are they need to be strong. Universally Friendly is a resource centre or an information centre to stimulate all its members to become creative in the most profitable way. I use the words ‘profitable way’ because time is our greatest asset. Although limited to 100 years on Earth it is vital that we expend it profitably. Kirk Douglas once said in a recent interview, ‘I would really like to live to 100 years of age.’ He knows in his heart that his life has a purpose. When you look into his illustrious career the evidence of purpose is clearly defined. You need to maintain a similar mind-set. You need to strengthen your goals by constantly updating them to meet current trends and your changeable ideas. Today your goal may be to purchase a 4 by 4 motor vehicle. Tomorrow that goal may change to a hybrid car. The goal is the same but the content differs. This is why you need to strengthen your goals, update your content and increase information relevant to that goal. Purchasing a home also differs in content. Purchasing a flat screen TV also differs in content. The goals are the same but the content differs. Every chain is the same made up of links that combine to either a torus or roller chain. If one link is weak then the entire chain becomes weak. Every goal is the same made up of links that combine to form the success level of a person. Weaken anyone of those links and your entire success falls apart. Years of hard work falls to pieces and irretrievable time is lost. Money also collapses like the stock market. Your health too can become affected. Dear Friends, I urge you to strengthen your goals. Each goal must be contained in a folder, labelled clearly and made assessable at any time in the day. As you meet a new day your mind is constantly meeting new information. Some of this information as simple as a word and complex as a figure can alter your goal. Such information must be encrypted in your relevant folder. At the moment I have over 25 goals with each goal put into a specific folder. Each folder is constantly being updated. Sometimes there may be no changes at all but what changes is the input. Having a folder of goals is of little value unless I add input to it. So, if London is my destination for a holiday then I need to constantly input something into my folder. Images, videos, Inspiration, Information, Articles, Brochures, Insurance, Budget and Backups are some forms of daily inputs. A greater enhancement to strengthen your goals is to put aside some funds. Take a tenner out of your pocket and put it into your folder. This really makes the whole visionary of a goal become alive like two emerging reproductive cells multiplying each day to create a final output. Destination, London is just one of your many goals in life. There are other goals too. I have 25 active goals at the moment. Although we are fundamentally the same we differ in our collective goals which makes us unique. Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls start strengthening your goals daily. Input equals output. Input zero effort into your folder and you shall receive a zero output. Instil a seed of passion and desire and you shall reap the harvest of your efforts in due course. You must physically see your goals in front of you every single day. Don’t tug them away. Let them roam freely in the corridors of your daily agenda. Doing this makes you more positive. It is very much like a daily workout. Start walking a few steps and within a few days you shall walk a few miles. Continue this with passion and desire and you shall walk the distance of the Earth’s circumference. Inspiration gets you started, positivity keeps you going. Build on this cliché and you shall build an empire. Remember every link in a chain must be strong for the chain to effectively work. Likewise, every goal in your dreams must be strong in order to fully unleash your true potential. This takes time but time is what you have. Inspiration is always there like the air, the energy, the substrate, the platform and the workers of the earth. Have a wonderful Thursday. Use every single day of February to build your strength using Inspiration from the right source.

Building a strong foundation

Building a strong foundation

Quote of the day

‘Building your future on a bed of weaknesses, limitations and expectations will result in constant failure, misery and heartache. Changing the composition of your foundation to strengths, broader applications and practicality will always result in constant success.’

One of the common mistakes to constant failure is that we build our foundations on a mixture of weaknesses, limitations and expectations. Strong Foundations in Engineering are vital strategies developed over centuries to keep structures both tall and short firmly on the ground. The use of the right materials are vital for buildings to withstand adversities of all denominations. As we fail we learn and as we learn we ascend and as we ascend we comprehend. We make mistakes all the time. Sometimes our mistakes is so colossal that we fail to emerge again. Dear friends I want to tell you today that no matter what your failure is you can re-emerge and start all over again. Why, because when you fail you learn and when you learn you ascend and when you ascend you comprehend. Why did you fail yesterday? Why did your business go bust? Why did you fail your GCSEs?  Understanding why we fail makes us learn from the reasons why we failed. As we learn from these mistakes we ascend like a new shoot. It may take time but as we rise to fame we comprehend from our mistakes knowing that we will not fail again and again. It is about swopping our weaknesses for strengths. It is about swopping our limitations for broader applications and it is about swopping our expectations with practicalities. Weaknesses are normally characterised by lingering bad habits. You need to say it’s time to let go and start afresh in a newer vestibule of positive vibes. Don’t live within the box because this immediately creates your limitations. Live beyond the box, now you suddenly create a multitude of opportunities, opportunities that you once never thought of. Don’t live on expectations. Having a repetitive hope of a lottery win for example is a chance in a million. Don’t base your life on a hope, base your life on a strong foundation of strengths, broader applications and practicalities. Strength should be your forte. Strength is something you develop like muscle building. It takes time but also constant maintenance. Having a broader application in a techno orientated world helps. Broader applications keeps you robust, resilient and financially sound. So, if you are a caterer your speciality should not be limited to catering but should have a broader outlook. You need to learn about book-keeping, you need to understand people, you need to diversify, you need to identify your customer’s needs and you need to a have a fall-back. You need to be practical about your daily chores. You cannot write the declaration of your life on a grain of rice. You need to divide your day into modules. You need to be pragmatic, level-headed and think like the way a tycoon thinks. Yes, Dear Friends you need to start your new working week on a stronger foundation.

Does two plus two equal to five?

Does two plus two equal to five?

Quote of the day

‘Midweek creates the subtle pivotal point to establish the triumph of your existing working week. Wednesday saw the past two days as accomplished or unaccomplished. Wednesday also triggers you to see the next two days fulfilled or unfulfilled. In other words does two plus two equal to five.’

Bonus Quote

‘The coveted effort of a successful individual always brings forth the ultimate results that they planned for in the early stages of their successful career.’

To a successful individual two plus two must always equal to five. Five is the magical number designated to you on a weekly cycle to go out into the living world and conquer what you have committed to in your written agenda the week before. Unselfish deeds for the day will always yield an inoffensive individual committed to life and committed to the Laws that govern The Universe. Midweek makes you see the two days ahead of you with clarity and vivacity. It makes you more determined to be fulfilled and accomplished by the end of it. Midweek always makes you ‘saw’ the past two days identifying your weaknesses and allowing you to correct them. Midweek is like the seesaw mechanism we spoke about earlier. Midweek creates the subtle pivotal point to establish the triumph of your existing working week. Wednesday ‘saw’ the past two days as accomplished or unaccomplished. Wednesday also triggers you to see the next two days fulfilled or unfulfilled. In other words does two plus two equal to five. Midweek is like sitting on a seesaw because on one end of the seesaw you see the next two days. Whilst on the other end of the seesaw you ‘saw’ the last two days. Does 2 plus 2 equal to five? Are you a winner or are you a loser? Winners strive to conquer their duties for the day hailing as champs all the way. Losers like to procrastinate and dream about victory and see champs pass them day in and day out. Midweek is the perfect analysis of your possible paralysis to your working week. Does 2 plus 2 equal to five? Dear Friends, it is all about your unique ability to analyse before you can finalise. Today you can tell by analysing whether today and tomorrow shall move smoothly. You can pick up the pieces that pull you back and you can gather your thoughts that can push you forward. This is what I call the coveted effort of an individual. The coveted effort of a successful individual always brings forth the ultimate results that they planned for in the early stages of their successful career. The coveted effort of an individual can actually be seen a mile away because there is an evident glow around them that channels them through the roughest terrains and the most awkward constraints. Dear Friends walk into the limelight of a midweek and bring out the best in you. Decipher, become wiser and then be the ultimate driver towards your weekly destination. What awaits at the end of it like a gift from heaven is your wonderful and fabulous weekend.

Strengths

STRENGTHS

Quote of the day

‘Strength is a towering word for it entails a forte of power, force, might and vigour to lift a grain of sand or a mountain of sand from one point to another. Without strength you cannot move forward to achieve whatever workload that stands in front of you.’

To develop a forte of True Strength takes time and endless courage for standing at the end of the corridor of your day weakness awaits you in the usual way leaving you dismal for yet another day. Strength is something that you need to develop like muscles that need toning. Strength is not about muscles but rather about the inner power, vigour, might and force hidden within you that using muscles to perform work. You must understand wholeheartedly that without work nothing can be done. Goals remain as dreams if no work is undertaken. Objects remain in the same position until work is undertaken. In Physics we define work in a specific way but this work is still the same effort needed for you to execute your daily workload from simplistic chores to complex ones. Let us first look at the more scientific definition of work.  Work is said to be done when the point of application of a force moves and is measured by the product of the force and the distance moved in the direction of the force. Let us now take a simple aspect of your workload at this precise moment and downgrade the scientific description of work into a simpler and more holistic approach.  Work such as moving an object from a mug to a jug, from a spark plug to a scatter rug, from taking a drug to pulling a plug requires that force or strength for without this source of energy that mug, jug, spark plug, rug, drug or plug will remain in exactly the same position. Sometimes we do not move objects or ideas or goals because we are ‘lazy’. In other words we have strength within us but do not utilise it correctly. Whatever your chore is for the day without using your strength or part of it you will never fulfil or accomplish it. Strength is your forte that needs attention and development. It requires nutrition, lubrication, participation and proper condition. Strength makes dreams come true. Strength is actually True Energy in motion. You need to keep your strength in proper shape otherwise you will be somewhat lazy and always procrastinate. Therefore you always need to remember as a meritocratic goal setter without developing your strength you will never be able to execute your daily grind in good time. You need strength like you need water. You need strength to make dreams come true. 

You need to identify your weaknesses and in turn strengthen them with all your might and energies.

You need to identify your weaknesses and in turn strengthen them with all your might and energies.

Quote of the day

‘Weaknesses can best described as our blatant flaws incurred over the decades, characterised by our obvious feebleness in making decisions and our softness in confronting adversaries. These constitute our limitations in life and to overcome them we need to develop our strength.’

A weakness in an individual can be quite debilitating. When we are weak we do not perform according to our abilities. When we are weak we often feel tired before even starting our day. We feel mentally drained. We often have a negative outlook to our day, with premonitions that our day will be bad. Our outlook to our future is equally despondent and incapacitating. Our weaknesses is often portrayed in our stance, our expressions and in our speech. People latch onto these weaknesses and then casually take advantage of us. This is something that we need to put a stop to. But how, you may well ask? How do we develop strengths when we are obviously so weak. The question to ask yourself how you can lift a pocket of potatoes when you struggle to peel a single potato. It all starts with a bit of patience. Patience is a true virtuosity of a successful meritocratic individual. Like a seed patience takes time to cultivate. Fortunately time is something that we have a lot of. To cultivate patience you need to understand the true meaning of the word patience. Similarly to cultivate a seed you need to know a little bit about the seed. You cannot plant a daffodil bulb in November and expect to see a flowering plant in January, the following year. You need to exercise patience. You need to endure the time period for growth and development. You need to be tolerant over unforeseen setbacks. You need to be persistent despite distractions that come in front of you. You need to have the staying power and stamina to see your goals through. This is what patience is all about. Knowledge forms the basic foundation to your start. Knowing when to sow will tell you when to reap. This comes from knowledge. Knowledge comes from above. To determine what your weaknesses are you need to extrapolate key and distinct flaws in your character. What is it that holds you back? What is your fear? What makes someone more successful than you? Why aren’t you doing something about it? Is it fear that holds you back? Are you afraid to venture forward and prefer to be stuck in the same old rut again and again. You need to be like the seed. You need power and your body certainly holds that. You need a forte of stronger points that overcomes the weaker ones. You need to be forceful and assertive and make inanimate objects move away from your positional state. You need to tone your muscles to make them perform at their level best. You need to be metier. You need to concentrate on the next second and contemplate on the previous one and vice versa. You need to develop vigour in your blood that drives you to overcome your weaknesses. This is the clear cut steeping stones for you. 

‘The Laws of Success’

Quote of the day

‘To be a law abiding citizen you need first to follow the law. To do this you need to follow it without flaw, you need to be sure about it and you need to draw from it. There are 10 pertinent laws to follow when creating resolutions and only when you abide by them will your success be apparent.’

The following 10 Laws of Success is something that will have a great impact on your life. It is something that you need to keep in your purse or wallet and use it whenever the need arises. 

·         Never cut off the goose that lays the golden egg.

·         The greater your needs the greater are your responsibilities.

·         Have 5 a day, not just in the goodness of foods but in the fondness of your moods.

·         You need to identify your weaknesses and in turn strengthen them will all your might and energies.

·         You must match your strategies with your finances, from little projects to overwhelming ones.

·         There is consideration and moderation to be considered when implementing a strategy.

·      Love everyone. Start strengthening your bond with those that are close to you. Every piece of the friendship puzzle is vital to your overall success.

·        Every venture has its own adventures. Beware of the snake, watch out for fakes and be ready to put on the brakes when the time comes.

·        They often say no pain, no gain. I say you can make every gain without any pain by using your brain  to attain all your humane goals.

·         Always carry a smile not just for a while but for the duration of a mile and in complete style.

Exercising the above 10 Laws to Success in 2015 without flaw will ensure a successful result for you. Abiding by the laws of your category or subject matter will always render a favourable result in a given time segment. How long does it take for a daffodil to blossom? It is all about timing and about patience. Each day for the next 10 days we will explore these Laws so that we fully understand what they mean before we can implement them. As a suggestion you may interpret these Laws on your own and compare them to my answers.

‘Your Future as written by you’

Quote of the day

‘I write to inspire but also write to be inspired. I write to clarify and verify but certainly not terrify. I am inspired each day to predict my life in the remaining years of my existence on planet Earth. You could call me a Futurologist if you prefer but I prefer to anticipate my next move so that it remains the best move, free from harm and not to cause harm.’

What the future holds for you lies entirely in what is written in your heart. Your heart is the core of your existence beating rhythmically according to your mellow or perhaps your bellow. You can feel your heartbeat at times when you bellow and you could hear the silence of your heartbeat when you are mellow. The brain communicates through a network of nerves and neurons throughout your body sending signals of intent or response. The heart communicates through a system of vessels and capillaries feeding life to make history in a world filled with History. History is written right in front of you etched into the almanac of time every second that passes you. What did you do in the last second? What did you do in the last minute? What did you do in the last hour? History is recording your contributions good or bad and gives you a pictorial view of the result right in front of your eyes. Dear Friends, of whom you shall always be I want to tell you how important your life is. Your life as a priceless asset and unlike an expensive car that depreciates by the day or a house that would need restoring your life is an infinite source of energy that travels across galaxies in each life cycle to making new history and eradicating old habits and forming a friendly platform for others to share, care and to be constantly fair. Travelling forward in time ensures that you go according to plan. Travelling forward in time makes you prepared for adversaries and for sudden setbacks. Being a time traveller is simple, you just need a moment of solitude and cockpit of futuristic dials and buttons to press and monitor. You need to travel to the end of your destination on Earth and to travel in time to the next year when you are a year older. You need to see what needs to be done and what has already being done. You need to carry in your cockpit a series of unselfish goals that you have collected over time that you want to accomplish and fulfil. Your work period is 5 days and you are rewarded each week with 48 hours of pure relaxation and rest. What more can you ask for? Throw in several holidays per year, a good home, a steady job, a happy family, several hobbies, an annual concert and several visits to the theatre and you have the makings of a celebrity on Earth, living to enjoy and enjoying to live. Are your plans not taking off? Do you experience negative blockages on the way? Being a Time Traveller makes you envisage how your life would become if you took immediate stance from today. You know your weaknesses, now layout a strong agenda to make weakness banish. Need help, I am here. Drop me a line and if I can offer assistance I will. Open new doors of opportunities and close the ones that troubled you for so long. Now with the cockpit of your craft showing 1st of January 2015, what do you see through the aperture of your cockpit? Do you see the new you or the older you? This is where you need affirmation. You need to affirm that you will assert yourself each day and like I said I am here to help. I certainly will inspire you from day to day but if you need that extra bit of nudge then drop me a line and perhaps a weekly newsletter tailored just for you is what is needed, like a map. My personal email address is universallyfriendly@live.com.