Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Thursday, 22 September 2016

Your Attitude to the Magnitude of Life - Part 2


Your Attitude to the Magnitude of life – Part 2

Quote of the day

‘What is life without life itself? Our natural life of 100 years will be so empty if just one of the 8.7 million species became redundant. Therefore, I say onto you and verily too, appreciate every living creature, value their existence and offer your warm assistance when poachers come in their way or when insecticides are applied like cyanide on an open field.’


Greetings and best wishes to all my friends from around the world, it is so warm to embrace your presence today. Thank you. Thank you for your friendship, it is a relationship that I shall treasure for the rest of my life. Relationships are to be treasured, everyone holds a special relationship with someone in their hearts. Relationships should be extended to all human beings from around the world and to all 8.7 million species of life that exist around us. Valuing and appreciating these relationships makes you understand the purpose of life itself and the fulfilment of it too. As we sit in the comfort zone of life we need to give in return by comforting every living organism that contributes to our welfare. This harmonious relationship was put in place at the very onset of the Creation. All life forms came onto the earth two by two. Each species was equipped in their own way, created to excavate the land, to irrigate the soil and to ionise the air with fresh supplies of oxygen. Like machinery in a building site, each species is designed and created to accommodate our needs from the very 1st day to the present 21st Century. Dear Friends, don’t chase the pigeons away or step on a snail or frighten the fox, let them be and let them flourish in the way it was intended. Walk the plateau of knowledge with an open eye and listen to the sound of the hummingbird with a tuned ear and you will understand the need for variety in every society. Glide across the everglades of life and you will notice creatures that look still, equipped with quills and gills and the sudden will to kill. Fear not for they shall not come into your home and take possession of your life, they just need for you to keep the balance. The balance of life has been ordained upon us because we have the power to reason and the power to observe the seasons. Do good unto the world and watch how your world will flourish and your mind becomes nourished with enrichment. Your attitude to the magnitude of life is important to comprehend. I wish you a very fruitful and happy life.

Tuesday, 26 July 2016

Eternal Bond


Eternal Bond

Quote of the day

‘An Eternal Bond or EB is a pledge made between a man and a woman. It forms an eternal relationship that creates new episode in the history of mankind of an unprecedented level and paves a path towards personal victory and untainted mystery for themselves, for their offspring and for the population as a whole.’

Welcome to the 26th day of July 2016. Always make it a daily habit to log onto my blog for complete articles and special offers. www.inspirationalgalleries.blogspot.co.uk. Today I would like to talk about EB or Eternal Bond. GOD’s plan for marriage is one man for one woman for a lifetime. This is why we ceremonially commit to such a bond in a church, mosque, synagogue or temple. To commit to such a bond, you need to mixture of subtle ingredients to ensure strength, vitality and longevity. Like mixing concrete for a strong foundation you need key ingredients to make a sound and solid foundation. It is sinful to break such a bond unless circumstances changes for the individual. The key ingredients to a strong bond are Love, Endurance and Trust. I call this the LET Principle. Do we LET things to happen of their own accord or do we mix the right ingredients to form a permanent bond? The LET principle will always decades of togetherness despite problems and contingences along the way. The LET Principle ensures that both man and woman understand wholeheartedly that Love, Endurance and Trust are paramount to a permanent bond. Love is by far the most difficult ingredient to sort because standing parallel to this is Lust. Most of us confuse the two. Love is long term ingredient, lust on the hand is short term desire. Love is about caring, sharing and remaining fair. Lust on the other hand is about not caring, not sharing and not remaining fair. If you can conform to the principles of love you are almost ready to commit. What follows is Endurance and Trust. Endurance is your staying power when the going gets tough. It is your overall fortitude to overcome hurdles in your life, difficulties over your lifespan and problems with your children and with other people. Trust is such a delicate category. To establish Trust you need to follow this proven sequence: Trust Almighty GOD, Trust Yourself and then find a Partner that you can Trust. To have Trust you also must be forgiving. Trust reinforces your confidence in both you and your partner. Always ensure that in your Vision Book you create a portfolio to include the LET Principle. The enclosed photograph into today’s article is an example of this. Many of us will ask how do we strengthen a weakening relationship? Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls a separate article on this matter will follow soon. I wish you a marvellous Tuesday from the bottom of my heart. Always believe in yourself, always believe in your partner and always believe in Almighty GOD. For HIS plans have created the platform for us to subsist. GOD’s Plan always has a divine purpose.

Wednesday, 10 February 2016

Picking up the Pieces using Positive Linking


Picking up the pieces
Quote of the day
‘By using Positive Thinking you can actually start all over again. Positive Thinking helps you to pick up the pieces after a relationship, friendship, companionship, hardship, membership or leadership has fallen apart.. Positive Thinking is about Positive Linking’
Welcome to midweek from rather a turbulent London Town where cold fronts meet warm fronts creating freak weather conditions. Life is like that too, we meet hot tempers and collide into unnecessary tantrums that spoils our day and even our lives.
Previous Quote
‘Avoidance is better than pursuance. Avoidance lasts for a few seconds but pursuance can last a lifetime.’
Despite this you need to focus on the job at hand. Everyone is different although we are fundamentally the same. Our daily agendas are different even though they can be broken down into individual tasks. What you do for the day differs to the next person. Ideally, we need to remain focussed. Like cold and warms fronts colliding with each other in the ionosphere above you, collision is possible around you at any time. Human collisions can be fatal, harmful and often regretful. Urban and rural surroundings form the perfect backdrop for rage to invade. Relationships, friendships, companionships, hardships, memberships or leaderships can shatter in an instance. You need to avoid such intense calamities by living in anticipation. Positive Thinking helps. Positive Linking is the application that follows. At this precise moment in time a relationship somewhere in the world could turn sour and fall apart. In this forbidden process someone gets hurts. Anticipation circumvents such a catastrophe. It is all about mood swings. Tread on someone’s toes and they will react with hostility. Tread on someone’s progress and you release will their fragility. Tread on someone’s hopes and dreams and you shall create volatility. Human relationships are important. You need to understand this and give someone their space when it is needed. Colliding in mood confrontations leads to disastrous consequences. This is evident all over the world. People spend their prime time getting into long-term relationships and spend the rest of their lives trying to get out of it. Some people seek financial help by borrowing, borrowing and borrowing and then end up sorrowing, sorrowing and sorrowing. Today’s article is about picking up the pieces using Positive Linking. Positive Linking is about trying to connect broken pieces bit by bit. Let us look at an example. You are in financial hardship. Your finances collapsed in an instance. Your back is against the wall. You have basically fallen to pieces. Before the bailiff knocks on your front door you need to exercise Positive Thinking. We spoke about Positive Thinking yesterday. Now we need to follow on with an application called Positive Linking. Positive Linking connects broken pieces together. It is the bond that brings financial sanity from financial insanity. How Positive Linking works is that it uses you has the backbone. It uses you as the skeleton or the mainframe to reconstruct Financial Preservation from Financial Devastation in your own courtyard. Why you? Well, you are indeed the backbone to your entire life. You are the pillar of strength, the beholder of fortitude and an individual that has time as collateral. Yes, time is indeed our greatest asset equated to 100 years or 86,400 seconds per day. If you believe this, then you can start believing in yourself. Yes, you are the precursor to what tomorrow holds for you. What you think today creates the events of tomorrow. Every fallen piece in your financial hardship must be linked together to create an overall picture. Gather all your liabilities and look at them in the face and then add them up mathematically to reach a total figure. For you it may be £20k, for him it maybe £30K, for her it maybe £40K and to them it maybe £100K, it does not matter. What really matters is Positive Linking identifies your overall borrowings. Whatever the figure is it is your Financial Hardship in reality. Each link constitutes a borrowing. Positive Linking takes each liability and treats it as a whole. This then gets divided by part of your greatest asset which is time. A total liability of £20K divisible by say 48 months is £416 per month. Now suddenly we have lessened the burden and extended the repayment. In due course I will show you how to generate these funds with the least amount of effort, legally and professionally. Positive Linking works with Positive Thinking. You cannot link without thinking. Picking up the pieces works if you want it to work. Always remember that I shall always been here to inspire you to take action. Have a wonderful midweek. We can pick up the pieces if we wanted to.

Friday, 3 July 2015

The Recommended Specialty for today – Unite by Day, Unite by Night.


The Recommended Specialty for today – Unite by Day, Unite by Night.
Quote of the day
 ‘Weekends come and they go. Today I want to focus on an area of Specialism to make your weekends more memorable. This area is called Unite by Day, Unite by Night.’
Previous Quote
TAG stands for Trust Almighty GOD.
Bonus Quote
‘Develop confidence in your purpose and your trust will grow. Have faith in your existence and you shall live on for eternity. Devote your time in prayer and communication every day and you shall become a sage in the making.’
We unite in many ways but lack the bond to sustain our unity. Marriage is a typical example of such a unity and it is said that GOD’s plan for marriage is one man for one woman for a lifetime. This is a permanent bond, affixed for life and transported into the realms of eternity. However we have changed this over time to more seductive ways that weakens GOD’s plan. We added adultery, fornication, masturbation, divorce, abuse and money into the bond and weakened it like water to sugar or salt. Friendship is a form of unity but friendship can fall apart like a loose tile on a bathroom wall. The severity of the broken friendship will depend on how hard the tile falls. Friendship is so important in life that without friendship there will be constant hardship. We unite as team members as well to build productive working relationships and tor raise self-awareness and personal effectiveness. Disassociation in team building creates weaknesses in overall production which may not be seen immediately but shows a deficit annually. Unity is in all facets of life. There is unity at school, in the playground, in prisons, at work, at home, at gatherings, at events and at meetings. There is also disarray at school, in the playground, in prisons, at work, at home, at gatherings, at events and at meetings. What do you want in life day in and day out? Do you want harmony or discord? Do you want agreement or disagreement? Dear Friends, today I want you to make a firm pledge. Today we shall create a personal manifesto to unite with strength and throw away resentment, bitterness and struggle that haunts us 24/7. I want you to unite by day and to unite by night. This area of specialism is going to enrich you, increase your lifespan and make you a worthy citizen of The Universe. This weekend shall become a historic weekend for you because you will create a personal manifesto stronger than goal setting and that is to live in Unity. Your Manifesto shall read as follows:
I, the undersigned hereby commits on this day, dated the 4th of July 2015 to live in Unity in all facets of my life. To start my pledge I shall always carry my TAG with me daily for the rest of my life. I shall start my day in prayer and end it sincerely in gratitude. The sandwich of my day will be immersed in good daily deeds to show by example rather than seek gratitude for my efforts. I shall let bygones be bygones and fill my life with harmony despite any pain that I have endured or encountered in the past. I shall throw away any traces of anger and resentment and live a life that is calm, peaceful and composed. I shall exist with a purpose and shall put a firm effort into my daily agenda. I shall overcome any obstacles that come my way. I shall develop confidence in my purpose and will ensure that my trust in all grows. I shall have faith in my existence and strive to live on for eternity. I shall devote my time in prayer and communication every day, seeking to resolve and speaking to absolve.
Signed

Sunday, 21 June 2015

Friends for Life


Friends for Life

Quote of the day
‘A Friend is someone you can depend on. A friend is someone that will commend you. A friend is someone that will attend to your needs. A friend is someone that will comprehend your dilemma. Friends will lend you a hand and spend valuable time with you. Friends are for life.’

Previous Quote
‘The bandwidth of Friendship is infinite but to attach a figure to friendship I think 7 billion would be suffice.’

Dear Friends, I suddenly got up today with the quest to make my earnest pledge come true. I want to started building on my friends so that one day I may look back and see 7 billion people say goodbye to me when I depart from planet Earth rather than have 7 billion people despise me for who I was or what I was. You see, friendship is such an endearing relationship and an everlasting companionship. I used the words endearing and everlasting in the most appropriate context because endearing illustrates the charm, love and appeal that friends bring to your heart and everlasting illustrates the bond that friendship holds not just for the day but forever and ever. Times are becoming more difficult even though the world revolves about its axis. Difficulties are so diversified that we do not know the outcome of tomorrow until we meet it. Friends help us to understand the road ahead and guide us through the hardship that is common in all corners of the world. I want to tell you today that without a friend life can become harder. Without friends the road ahead can be quite treacherous. Today I want you to establish your friendship database. I want you to increase your friends and I want you to eliminate your enemies. I want you to drop them a line or an email or connect with them via social media. I want you to wake up to the sound and tone of true friends. I want you to say hello to your neighbour and goodbye to the onlooker. I want you to speak in an eloquent tone of charm, love and appeal. As much as you want to attract friends you need to be equally attractive. A smile goes a long way. The word Hello breaks the silence when two people meet. A gesture of goodwill is always appreciated by all. An invitation is something that always enhances your day. Go for it, increase your friends and reduce your enemies. Always remember that a Friend is someone you can depend on. A friend is someone that will commend you. A friend is someone that will attend to your needs. A friend is someone that will comprehend your dilemma. Friends will lend you a hand and spend valuable time with you. Friends are for life!

Friday, 22 May 2015

EMBRACEMENT


EMBRACEMENT

Quote of the day
‘Embracement Maintains Better Relationships Across Communities. Embracement Means Extreme Nestle & Trust.’

The word embracement is often ignored because we tend to forget the value of another human being unless we need their services or product. The world is teeming with industrious individuals working hard each day to make the world a better place for you and me. There are so many faculties of employment in the vast bureau of employment. Employment is changing all the time and technology creates new employment vacancies and dissolves older needs and requisites. Gone are the days of the centurion or the TV Technician and in comes the Digital Technician and the much needed Humanitarian. You see Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls we are solely dependent on each other. Therefore we need to appreciate the value of every human being and offer a form of gratitude. Embracement is an effective and trustworthy way of doing just that. We need to appreciate the janitor, the maintenance crew, the doctor, the sculptor, the author, the actor, the daughter, the shopper, the lawyer, the commuter, the barrister, the passenger, the editor, the traveller, the manager, the preacher, the bachelor, the chancellor, the auditor, the chiropractor, the conductor, the narrator, the orator,  the visitor, the tutor, the realtor, the proprietor, the pastor, the navigator, the adjudicator, the aviator, the director, the competitor, the co-editor, the decorator, the contractor, the consolidator, the monitor, the elector, the illustrator, the inventor, the manufacturer, the laminator, the motivator, the operator, the juror, the vaccinator, the volunteer, the victor, the operator, the orchestrator and the infinite amount of people that make the world a better place to live in. Dear Friends it is so important to acknowledge another human being not just when you use their services or products but as a whole. Every human being is part of a chain of friends around the world that if combined can brush away evil in an instance. I want you to practice EMBRACEMENT using the next 48 hours. I want you to start embracing people at home, to greet them with love and to embrace them with confidence. I want you to show your love like never before and to make everyone realise how important they really are. To embrace someone with sincerity is to hold their hands in friendship, to hug them with love and to cuddle them with assurance. A firm handshake shows that you are genuine, refine and trustworthy. A hug embraced in warmth and kindness displays your love like never before. A cuddle is comfort like a soft eiderdown and a memory pillow. Embrace everyone. A handshake will do, a hug will bring a smile to someone and a cuddle will remove any source of muddle that may exist in the word that we see each day. Take a written prescription of EMBRACEMENT and use it effectively to improve your values and to values of another human being. Show love and you will get love in return. 

Monday, 13 April 2015

‘Ascent or Descent’


‘Ascent or Descent’
Quote of the day
‘A week of Ascension creates unique opportunities turning dreams into realism. Conversely a week of Descent creates a landslide of impossibilities resulting in dead ends rather than open doors.’

Monday is universally accepted as the 1st working day of the week for any individual, working, studying or retired. Therefore it stands as a flagship to a working week of hardship, courtship, better relationships or possible entrepreneurships. Your intent creates the rudder to your week long journey, repeated 52 times a year for 100 years of your existence. Your intent based on how you spent your previous weekend will determine how your working week will eventually pan out. Having a knowledge of what you have to do helps. If you start work at 8AM already you know the procedure to get ready and be at work at 8AM. If your intent is right then you shall always be content. If your intent is uncertain than you shall steer yourself into a sea of either opulence, corpulence, excellence, insolence, violence or nonviolence. The question is do you want to ascent or descent. Ascent makes you rise above the rest. It makes you real. By being real people regard you as honest, genuine, productive and punctual. Descent is the converse, it makes you live with dreams that rise above the clouds and disappear like them. It makes you dishonest, insincere, unpunctual and unproductive. You are the driver of your intent and this is why I stated that your weekend promotes your working week. Fill your heart with warmth during the weekend and you shall fill your working week entrusted with accomplishment and fulfilment. Don’t fall into a sea of uncertainty. Don’t gamble with your life. Don’t assume the outcome of your working week. Plan in advance to realise the workload of your daily agenda and steer your intent to fulfil and accomplish these tasks diligently. Landing in a sea of opulence, corpulence, excellence, insolence, violence or nonviolence will determine whether you ascent or descent. Driven by a positive intent will always land you on right side up. You will always be opulent, excellent and nonviolent. Driven by a negative intent will always land you on the wrong side of the coin. You will always be corpulent, insolent and violent. What do you want in life? If you are a meritocratic Goal Setter than you will only want success to be achieved unselfishly. Don’t let hardship follow you like a tail of a kite. Develop a better intent manifested from methodical thinking during your previous weekend. From it comes a world of opulence opening doors to courtships, better relationships or possible entrepreneurships. Ascent Dear Friends like a jaguar that moves up rather than stays down in the savannah of uncertainty. Ascent like the redwood that stands as the tallest of all trees. Don’t slump into descent where you can be trampled by others. Don’t descent into a bout of negativity that brings home the common stress and anger that children fear and remember. Don’t descent but ascent. Have a great working week.

Monday, 23 February 2015

March into March 2015


‘March into March 2015 Joyfully’
Quote of the day
‘Every action has a validated reaction. Sustaining good relationships comes with a consorted effort each and every second of your day. The result is highly beneficial and rewarding. Better relationships creates cheerfulness and happiness.’

I wonder about the way people argue over their wealth, dispute over their assets, quarrel over senseless matter, fight in the streets or in the corridors of their existence, disagree with the fundamentals of life and row over silliness. I wonder why people would break relationships and hold hostility in their hearts for so long. I wonder why children fight at school and why hostility would travel along the playgrounds of their school, in the tuck-shop or on the streets of their neighbourhood. I wonder why married couples would seek divorce without sourcing a solution. I wonder about tension at work, the levels of animosity, rivalry and bickering that deluge the working environment. Dear Friends we waste such valuable time breaking relationships rather than working towards building them. History illustrates the tormenting experiences of broken relationships the world over. Countries have been torn apart, streets have become unsafe, homes are constantly been destroyed, families are pulled apart, love turns to hate, harmony collapses to disharmony, violence is a trademark of a young person and victimisation is a trademark of an older person. This is not the way forward. We need to march into March 2015 joyfully. Joy brings about happiness and pleasure. Joy enlightens the soul and makes you glad for all your efforts in a single day. We often take little things of sentiments and make them colossal events of sadness. Instead of turning a blind eye or a deaf ear we make silly errors into lifelong terrors. The key to a better relationship is about listening and about understanding. To enter into a relationship is often easier than sustaining one. Your circumstances too play a key role. Change your circumstances and you will change the people that you meet. Go to a different school and you shall meet new and different friends. So why become embroiled in broken relationships and discord when you know well that if your circumstances were different you would have met different people. I say onto you and verily too, you need to let it pass. You need certain words that hurt to be like the wind or the rain that blows or drenches and then stops. Let it pass. Avoidance is better than pursuance. Tomorrow’s article is called ‘The Art of Fighting without Fighting.’ Your effort is an important feature in creating better relationships. If you were one of the crew that is going to Mars in 2025 how would you cope with a relationship of 25 people? You entered into a relationship several weeks ago and were chosen for your merits and passion. How would you set the pace for the future of the human race?

Sunday, 22 February 2015

How is your ship sailing?


How is your ship sailing?
Quote of the day
‘Trouble comes in ALL shapes and Sizes but are divisible by a commitment to a relationship that started when you first embarked on it. Whatever the relationship is you must be committed to overcome it at all costs.’

I often feel sad when I hear of families separating over trivial indifferences when they should in fact look to resolve. A Captain of a ship knows his or her responsibilities at the very onset before sail and are aware of dangers ahead. Many of us enter into relationships without genuine love but rather fall into a common trap of lust and therefore propagate with lust rather than love. Lust makes you run into stormy clouds, torrential rain, typhoons, excessive heat or tornadoes during your journey in life. Life is meant to be enjoyed and filled with constant happiness. If we plan in advance we shall benefit with abundancies of happiness and joy and look towards a more fruitful career. Yes, there will be problems but as an individual, partner or family you can work around it to resolve it. Many a family dispute could have been avoided. Many a divorce could well have been circumvented. Anger and hostility appear to create many problems along our journey in life. Anger and hostility are short lived and if we make them go away like a sudden turbulence on the ocean floor life can continue unperturbed. I have always stated that avoidance is better than pursuance. Avoidance lasts for a brief moment whereas pursuance lasts for a lifetime. Why make a mountain out of a mole? Why rock the boat? Why make waves? Problems will come in various forms. Problems are meant to be solved. I am here to help. I am the Modern Day Problem Solver. I am like the Captain of your ship guiding you to a smoother journey along a rough road. You need love but certainly not lust to succeed. When you see someone of the opposite sex do you look upon them with love or lust? Lust creates momentary relationships and a sensual desire that is not worthy of your intent to be content. Love creates the opposite. Love creates respect and understanding. Love is about permanent bondage. You do not have to be married to be bonded. To love all human beings does not require a signed testimonial. Love is an education and we need to transmit it to the old and young, unselfishly. Lust breaks relationships. Lust is a must that will eventually make you go bust. I say onto you and verily too, love rather than lust. We need to be educated to understand the distinct differences and consequences of lust and love. In the next few days I will compile a series of articles for your perusal that examines individual relationships and how to cope with them when troubles stirs. Don’t become distraught when the ship sways, take action and move to calmer seas. Walk amongst the valley of peace and tranquillity and feel the gentle breeze that soothes any headaches or heartaches.