Butterflies – Part 2

Butterflies – Part 2

Quote of the day

‘All things in life run parallel with each other. So, if you stumble in the morning latch onto a parallel analogy and use it to alleviate you from your troubled situation. Butterflies when you feel butterflies within you, the goose and the gander when you feel a noose and slander around you, birds for nasty words, apes for sour grapes, cats for rats and hounds for unusual sounds.’

Welcome to Thursday, the 25^th of August 2016. I cannot believe that I am writing an article to you so soon because it seems like January 2016. Life is fun under the brilliant sun, life can be happy if you avoid being snappy, you need to enjoy your life rather than destroy it. Yes, your life is the most important aspect of your existence. Drawing close analogies with successful individuals helps you overcome stumbling blocks. Like the butterfly we need to fly above our dilemmas and move on to another opportunity. You need to observe your dilemma from a bird eyes view. Look at traffic from above and you will see aggravation, congregation, acceleration, deceleration, desperation, excitation and violation. Look at it from a butterfly’s view and you will see a different perspective. You will discover alleviation, liberation, meditation, calmness and veneration. Like a butterfly that hovers from one opportunity to another you need to move away from the hustle and the bustle of life. Don’t stick to one option but look at other options. Be like the butterfly that flies to the next flower or the next and the next. Look at commuters on a train and you will notice toleration smeared with chauvinism, hesitation wrapped with relaxation and shoving mangled with loving. Become a butterfly for the moment and you can turn discomfort into comfort, lateness into punctuality and incompetence into professionalism. Every species in life go about their daily tasks in a well organised manner. Look at the ants, they will never get up your pants, it’s not their task. Look at the worms, they do not pass on germs, it’s never their task. Look at the snail it never leaves a trail for you to follow, why should it. Each species of life is assigned to a specific task. Like you all tasks need to be accomplished and fulfilled, period. Don’t clash, don’t be brash, don’t crash, don’t splash a pedestrian, dispose of trash in the right way, don’t smash something or be brash at someone. Focus like the butterfly on your given task. Do it, if you did wrong admit it, if you did right commit to it, if you cannot do it, quit it.

Bonus Quote

‘Do it, if you did wrong admit it, if you did right commit to it, if you cannot do it, quit it.’

Have a wonderful Thursday. Hover over your troubles on the double.

Does courtesy exist?

Does courtesy exist?

Quote of the day

‘Human beings are designed to live in harmony and to exercise courtesy to each other in a polite and gentle manner. Today, our greediness and competitiveness has made us ignore basic human qualities, as a result courtesy is slowly fizzling away.’

Dear friends, how can we call ourselves friends when we cannot exercise courtesy? How can we live with anger when we need each other to survive? Our existence is only possible because 7 billion other people already exist each designed to love rather than hate, each designed to live in harmony rather than in discord and each designed to serve rather than to have the nerve not to serve. One of the reasons why courtesy is slowly fizzling away is because we have become too obsessed with materialistic desires. We want to have everything even if it means hurting someone in the process. We forgot basic manners that promote a sense of comfort and happiness. Road rage is a typical example of human beings in a hurry and willing to stop at nothing to get to their destination. They break all the rules of The Highway Code and think nothing of it. People are disgruntled in queues, people are discontented with their jobs, people refuse to smile and people can hurt your feelings too. Where has it all gone wrong? Can you become successful by being discord in all of your ways? Can you live to 100 years of age knowing that others despise you for your rudeness? Success and Courtesy go hand in hand. Without courtesy you will never be successful. Courtesy expands the horizon of true friendship. Courtesy explores the mind-set of human beings. Courtesy is the framework to exist, subsist and assist. Courtesy is a science of caring, sharing and remaining fair. Courtesy must be exercised on a daily basis. Courtesy has no barriers. Courtesy is an art that needs to be cultivated. It is a process of exercising civility. A person that is courtesy is often regarded as gracious. A courteous person does not swear. A courteous person goes the extra mile and always delivers a smile. Are you courteous? Do you lack the qualities so prescribed and if so are you willing to unleash your hidden potential and exhibit courtesy from now on? In order to become successful and remain successful you need to be courteous, period. Let us rekindle the glow of the human spirit. Let us not live with animosity and let us develop the patience and understanding in dealing with varying situations each day. The world is our paradise, let us work together in harmony to maintain it.

HELP

HELP

Quote of the day

‘HELP is the principle motto of Universally Friendly. HELP stands for Help Every Living Person. There are no requirements to receive HELP all you need is to ask for it.’

To find HELP today is easy, however to find the right HELP is a lot harder. HELP is about Support for all Human Beings who are destitute in the predicament that they face. HELP is about assistance no matter how big or small to all Human Beings that struggle from time to time. HELP is about a Service to all Human Beings that can extract aid when needed from any part of the world. HELP is relief knowing that whatever your trouble is there is a resolve. HELP should be SUCCOUR and not SOUR. To get HELP you must know that comfort is at hand and not discomfort like payday loan companies that offer HELP but charge usurious interest rates. HELP is about assistance to those that are timid, weak, meek, disabled, old, infirm, ill or disengaged. Dear Friends, GOD would not have created The Universe without creating an emporium of Support and Guidance to all living citizens. When I received my HELP almost 21 years ago from this vast emporium, I knew that I needed to give back assistance to others that needed it. What is the point of overcoming personal sorrow when tomorrow holds worldwide sorrow? When you receive you should equally give. When you eat you should also feed. When you walk you should also walk with others that need support. When you talk you need to utter words of confidence to those that hear you rather than words of timidity and uncertainty that breaks the mould of other people. When you listen you need to listen to every word, every syllable and every pronunciation that ultimately makes people want to talk to you. I listen, I feel, I talk, I write, I express, I illustrate, I donate, I sponsor, I give, I feed, I participate and I HELP. HELP is the principle motto of Universally Friendly. HELP stands for Help Every Living Person. There are no requirements to receive HELP all you need is to ask for it. HELP takes care of problems. HELP manufactures confidence and belief in people. HELP is such an enormous tool that breaks areas of vagueness, coldness, ambiguity and insecurity with a gentle bore. HELP is the corridor to get you out of a trapped situation. To profit from HELP at The Universally Friendly Centre you need to establish what sort of HELP you really need. Problems come in all shapes and sizes but have a common denominator and that to all problems there is a solution.  Identify your problem and simply latch onto a pertinent solution. Action then follows. Action gives satisfaction. You are here on planet Earth to live your life in abundance, please don’t settle for anything less.

Effort equals Comfort

‘Effort equals Comfort’

Quote of the day

‘Effort always reciprocates into a period of comfort. In order words to every concerted ounce of effort there will always be a tonne of comfort that awaits you.’

I have seen how the wind blows. I have watched how the rain pours. I have seen the rising Sun and watched in awe at the setting Sun. I have seen the moon in its various crescent forms and I have gazed at the stars from East to West. I have also seen people that are jolly and people that are folly. I have seen the makings of a successful person and watched failure form a distance. I have seen real efforts from individuals that care for themselves and for others that need care. I have seen how people are rewarded with pockets of comfort and I have seen how stressed a person can be from dawn to dusk, day in and day out. Today I want to say something important to you and this is as follows: ‘Effort reciprocates into a period of comfort. In order words to every concerted ounce of effort there will always be a tonne of comfort that awaits you.’ As I see the flowers bloom and the bees buzz I want to see you living a life that is rewarded with comfort. Comfort can best described as a relief from the confinements of a working week. Take home just yourself each day and leave behind the complexities of work and head for the relaxation bout where your family and friends are there for you and you for them. Feel consoled that you have done well and have the mind-set to continue the stream of steadiness in the weeks ahead. I want you to remember the three S’s, Succour, Support and Security. Money cannot give you this, hard and consistent work can. Succour is your pool of assistance given to others and your bank of assistance given to you. Support is your sustenance knowing that you shall be well nourished and that you shall ensure that others close to you are always with their victuals.  Security is foremost and therefore you shall always be assured that as you bask in the comfort zone no harm shall come upon you. Dear Friends, always remember to start your week with a concerted effort from dawn to dusk. Plan in advance and note your duties for each day in a memo suitable for your extrapolation. Apply this effort with sincerity and at the end of the week endow yourself with 48 hours of total relaxation in a comfort zone bespoke to your needs. Do this on a weekly basis and watch how your eyes will glow with success and your lips moistened with the appropriate words of appreciation and gratitude. Have a great day and a great week, with love and eternal friendship – Anthony Pan